Are women attracted to men who are virgins and are waiting for marriage?

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sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Not like guys are! That's for sure. At least in America 🇺🇸. My first love and I were both virgins. He was 20 and a virgin. I would rather have him have some experience.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sure, and I'm one. Fuck the experience with a dozen other people, he can learn with me.

Miristheiss · Answer

Attracted? Only promiscuous women are turned off by something like that, meaning a guy waiting until marriage shouldn't even be with her to begin with. He should be with a girl waiting until marriage.

Advice, don't tell them straight away you are waiting. Keep that to yourself. Feel her out to find out her values. Maybe in the first month or two of dating casually bring up some time (when you two are sharing stuff about yourselves and your pasts) and say something like "how old were you when you had sex for the first time?"

It is casual and implies everyone has already done it you are just asking how old. She is more apt to tell you the truth when you don't tell her straight away I'm a virgin and seeking a virgin. A girl who likes you would just lie and say she is a virgin when she isn't. She still may lie but since you've implied "not being a virgin" is given she'll most likely lie that she was 19 or something like that instead of telling the truth that she was 15.

It is more likely a virgin would have to speak up and say "well, I've actually never had sex I'm a virgin".

If you are a virgin you shouldn't be dating promiscuous women. Don't let on that you are only looking for a virgin long term because many woman will just lie about their past. Bring it up casually and act as if no matter what her answer is you are fine with it. That is how you get closer to the truth.

PS-if she is trying to have sex with you and initiate it on the first few dates... she has been around. That is the type most likely to find it "unattractive".

AmyHew1tt · Answer

I would rather he have some experience. Not manwhore stuff, but some experience at least. That said, it will vary from woman to woman. From what I see, most women who are also virgins waiting for marriage prefer a virgin man as well, whereas women who aren't waiting don't have much of a preference.

DishLady · Answer

That's a very specific thing and the answer varies based on the specific guy and girl, their (shared/opposing) values, etc.

If there's a shared value or agreement that two people will see one another and wait for marriage, then yes, there is still a circle of younger people raised with those values who should, theoretically, appreciate that very much. (Attraction is more of a case-by-case basis.)

There are, however, individuals who are attracted to virgins as a sort of temptation... whose aim isn't to save anything for anything. (We'll be polite and stop the description at that.)

purplepoppy · Answer

No because you know they're going to be wifebeaters who expect you to do as you're told and be an obedient little housewife

electromagnetic · Answer

We wouldn’t know they are virgins until we ask. I think Jennifer Bloom can answer this question best if she hasn’t already blocked you too 😆

Billlewis · Answer

Despite the obvious disparity between how obsessed some guys are with marrying a female virgin, versus the opposite, I've always maintained that a guy who has had little to no sexual experience prior to marriage is more conducive to a productive relationship with his future wife. This is my opinion only.

Anonymous · Answer

Since I'm a virgin as well, I would be a hypocrite if I said that I wouldn't date or marry a man who's also a virgin.

But I think most women don't find them appealing.

That being said, I'm not specifically looking for a virgin. I wouldn't judge a man based on his sexual experience/lack of.

Bricealan · Answer

Probably some are, but just an educated guess - opinion only- I would say not, based on my experience with others. My cousin married as a 'virgin" (she said) and so too was her husband (she said) and their marriage was a disaster, sexually, as she had affairs for several years because her sex drive away surpassed her husbands.

Siri137 · Answer

I can't speak for anyone else, but I do know that I'm not. "Virginity" isn't something to be proud of, it's not a real accomplishment of any kind. It just means you've either refused, or been unable, to have sex.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

I want a guy who knows what he’s doing in the bedroom

LittleMelissa9614 · Answer

Yes! I'm still a virgin myself and waiting till marriage to have sex. As long as the guy is the same way, I'll gladly give him a chance.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Some women are, some prefer a man who has a bit of experience in relationships and women overall and experience in bed.

LazerBean · Answer

Most people do not care if their partner is a virgin or not, regardless of gender

Kelley1 · Answer

Of course not. Women are attracted to men that other want.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Not really but it’s definitely not a bad thing. I think most girls want a guy who’s a little more experienced ban then to guide them their first time but not someone who’s been with a lot of girls.

HighValue · Answer

Many of them don't like men that have strong morals and stick to them because they then know they will never measure up to his moral standards.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Not really.. Not necessarily.. Some women want virgins, because they probably value him not being with anybody, and some women might find it a turn on to take a guy's virginity.. And there are Christian girls who want to do it God's way with a man.. But more times than not women don't care for "inexperienced" men..

Babygirl_S · Answer

Since I'm a virgin waiting until marriage I don't dislike them. However, I prefer guys who have some experience (not the ones with a very high body count)

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I've noticed a minority, it's much less valuable in men than women

molonski2 · Answer

Well , I don't know about marriage , but I have known a number who love to pop a guys Cherry who has this belief , and even if he would not partake , they love playing the game.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Probably not.
It comes down to what kind of person you are.
Just because you haven't gotten laid doesn't make someone will want to be with you.
A horrible personality might be the reason they are a virgin.

DrPepper12 · Answer

No they want experienced men with a promising future

Aubrey97 · Answer

It is definitely preferable that you know what you're doing already so we don't have to wait for you to become good at it!

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i think that after 50 you will stay a virgin

Nikki1989 · Answer

If they are, I have no idea why.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Unless seriously religious woman then I don't think so and also depends on the man's age. Early 20's men is fine but men in their 30's won't be attractive to most women.

MsProsperity · Answer

Yes I’m attracted to virgin man

CriticalCatDad · Answer

What if he is a virgin because he wants to be and he doesn't plan on ever getting married?

msc545 · Answer

I think women are always attracted to naive men who they can exploit and manipulate.

SotiCoto · Answer

Only hyper-religious ones are.  Most aren't.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Lol, stop it. If the answer was yes, then the guys wouldn't be virgins.

Wiredone · Answer

I don't think it matters if they are virgins or not. Women are attracted to what they like

OddBeMe · Answer

Only bitches with the same dumbass idea.

mayurr · Answer

Most of them are not.

Anonymous · Answer

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