Would men date a woman who is still a virgin at 35/40? or do they prefer to run away from her?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Most likely not. A girl who is a virgin in her teen years, going into her twenties or maybe even mid 20s I can understand that. She may have been in college all this time. But a girl who’s that age who is still a virgin, there has to be something wrong w her. Red flags. Most women want a partner, maybe marriage w kids. If she’s descent looking to very gorgeous still a virgin, unmarried, no kids by than something has got to be going on. The reason why I say this is because if she’s pretty a lot of men are going to be after her. But something about her personality is deterring all these men from committing to her. She’s probably got a lot of baggage. Even if she’s not the best looking woman, there are a lot of men out there who would still love to be in a relationship w her. But again if they’re avoiding commitment something has to be wrong w her emotionally.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't be put off by the mere fact that she was a virgin, although I don't consider virginity to be a particular asset.
But it would depend on why she was still a virgin. If she was saving herself for marriage then I wouldn't waste either of our time because I would never consider marriage unless we were compatible in every way, including sexually.

Sex isn't all that is important in a relationship, but it is important. It is one of the main reasons I like women. I don't just want a best friend. I want a woman with libido who loves sex.

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes, if her and I had great chemistry and connection and we were both attracted to each other , I wouldn’t mind taking her V card away

Avicenna · Answer

I think most men would as long as she’s willing to have sex with them,

Berethor · Answer

Women that age might be too old to have children, but the virginity itself is always a plus.

Anonymous · Answer

Some men will run some won’t.

My now girlfriend was still a virgin up until 5 seconds before midnight of her being 32 as I began deflowering her and by the first few seconds of her being 33 she was no longer a virgin.

She is the 2nd girl above 30 that I took her virginity.

Malgarak · Answer

Nothing wrong with that, of course. People are lonely, isolated or even just unfortunate for all kinds of reasons. Some naturally are a virgin by choice. I don't think it's anything weird, but I would be curious. So I would just simply ask how come they are still a virgin?, and just leave it at that.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I would, assuming she wasn't crazy. I've seen the exact same immature, k-12 bullshit behavior from women in their 30s as I saw in their early 20s. If age doesn't make any difference and experience level with men doesn't make any difference, I'll take whichever one gives me fewer headaches. Heck, give me a 20 year old who knows how to have a conversation and I'll find a way to make it work.

Billlewis · Answer

No, I wouldn't. However, if I could go back and remain a virgin for my entire life, I'd eagerly do so, because I think celibate guys are very attractive to many women.

HighValue · Answer

The virgin part is fine, but her being past 30 really limits her options as far as getting a good man for a long term relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not quite sure what the point would be. The whole point of dating is sex. So if she's not down for that it's not really dating.

It's like asking if I'd really want to go to a steak restaurant with a vegetarian. What's the point?

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I'm pretty sure if a guy cares about body count, they won't think it's bad

jahaims · Answer

I'd take a 40 year old virgin for a relationship over a 20 something year old that has been ran through.

RavVid · Answer

I would wonder and I would want to try before I buy

Juxtapose · Answer

I would wonder what caused her to turn down all that free dick up until this point. But other than that, there's nothing wrong with it.

DrPepper12 · Answer

True facts? I'm not interested. It would feel like a project tbh

Anonymous · Answer

What for? If she's 35/40 and a virgin clearly she doesn't like men.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, we would. You’ve got another 20 years to go before you hit that age though.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Sure! When does she wanna meet me?

Ariesman81 · Answer

Virgins over 30 are a red flag

Twalli · Answer

It would depend on why she is one.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I would if she's got big boobs !!!

Anonymous · Answer

She religious or saving her marriage?

exitseven · Answer

Of course I would

woahhh152 · Answer

Why asking?

In_Trance · Answer

Pass

Slim57 · Answer

Of course they would

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