Would a guy be willing to date a woman age 27-30 that's a virgin?

[Anonymous]

I'm around age 27-30 (don't want to tell my real age), and still very much a virgin. It's not necessarily a wait till marriage thing. I basically struggled a lot at home for many years and never really had the opportunity to go out much. But I do now. Will a guy be willing to date someone around my age that's a virgin?

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For everyone wonder, no I don't have any mental issues besides anxiety which many more people have than what they would like to admit, including non-virgins. But it does not get in the way of my social life.

[markml]

It really depends on the guy.

But remember you're not trying to win a popularity contest. You're trying to find the right guy for you.

Let's start with what should be obvious. There are plenty of guys your age (and even older) that are still virgins. And none of those guys should worry about you being a virgin. If you add guys who are nearly virgins, the list grows longer.

On top of that, for many guys, you being a virgin is a positive thing. It means you're not weighed down by much baggage, and it will be more special to share sex with you, knowing you haven't been intimate with anyone else.

You see, for every man who doesn't want to date virgins, there has to be at least as many men who would strongly prefer virgins. And what the heck is wrong about waiting until marriage? Isn't it romantic to go through life knowing you only ever had sex with one person, and it's the person you were meant to be with?

Really, the only guys who are afraid to date virgins are those who are mainly just looking for hook ups, friends-with-benefits and casual relationships. Those guys are afraid to have sex with virgins, because they know that girls tend to naturally become clingy with the first guy they ever had sex with. And they don't want to feel guilty for taking a girl's virginity and then moving on to another girl.

So actually if you care about being more than "another notch" on some guy's belt, being a virgin is a good way to filter out the guys who are afraid of serious commitment. It's not a perfect filter, but it does a pretty decent job.

[SamIam96]

I don't know about arranged marriages. Will date before marriage? If so, would you resist having sex while dating? Sex is an important part of a relationship. I would be concerned that a 27 year old virgin has low interest. That disconnect will likely lead to stress in the marriage. Whatever your interest level, you should seek a partner that's compatible with your level of desire.

[Man-O-Metal]

Absolutely. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm a 23 year old virgin myself. But I am waiting for marraige. This is my mindset because I only want to share those special moments with one person. I don't want to have a history that I can compare the next girl to.

[jshm2]

If your social skills are up to it, sure.

Obviously don't be daft and state you're a "30 year old virgin" to someone you're trying to date. But play it cool that you've been busy in career and life hence not been able to find time for the game until now.

Think of it like a job interview. You're lacking the experience. Hence got to pad for what you have instead.

[Antman7119]

I personally would lie and say you’re not a virgin. It freaks some guys out just thinking that a girl having her first night become over obsessed. But also the side of it is he may into only to take your virginity. One for “v-cards taken” bragging rights and also it does feel significantly better from what I remember taking a few when I was younger

[markml]

Lying isn't a good thing. If the guy can't deal, he's probably not the right guy to begin with.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes and no. At your age im concerned mental issues are at play. I have gone on a date with a virgin around 27 i think and she was weird and told me she was a bj slut so we could still have fun. Thats exactly one example of the kind of concerns id have. Also that maybe you might not have a sex drive.

[Whatever2929292]

Yes I would. There is more to dating then sex. I am waiting until marriage anyways. There is nothing wrong with you

[FilmGuy93]

Some guys will be able to date you without issue, but most guys (my self included) are going to prefer to date women with at least some experience.

[andreasderjuengere]

''very much a virgin'' made me giggle.
Anyhow - I'm not your target group anyway. All the best from here :)

[Berethor]

You are not an old maid yet, personality I prefer virgin girls because they are not hos.

[DavidRaul]

Yeah ofcourse. I don't see a problem dating a Virgin or non-virgin. Why does that even matter

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure! No problem! Wanna go get a pizza and shoot some pool, take a late night walk in the park?