I just can't seem to find a girlfriend. Do you have any specific advice?

[simon]

[leiley]

Finding someone special can sometimes feel like a bit of a maze, can’t it? Here are some pointers that might help you navigate the dating world a bit better:

Work on Yourself: This is cliché but essential. Be someone you’d want to date – focus on your hobbies, passions, and personal growth.
Expand Your Social Circle: The more people you meet, the higher your chances of finding someone compatible.
Online Dating: If you haven't already, consider giving online dating a try. Just be honest in your profile and clear about what you’re looking for.
Be Open and Approachable: Sometimes, it’s just about being open to new experiences and people. Smile more, engage in conversations, and show genuine interest in others.
Don’t Rush: Take things at a comfortable pace and don’t feel pressured to find someone quickly. Relationships are better when they develop naturally.
Rejection is Okay: Not every attempt will lead to success, and that’s perfectly fine. Take rejection as a step towards finding the right person, rather than a setback.
Ask for Feedback: If you have trusted friends or family members, consider asking them for their honest feedback on how you come across to others. Sometimes, a little tweaking in how we communicate or present ourselves can make a big difference.

[northerngal]

Do things you enjoy out in the real world. Enroll in classes on subjects you are interested in. Live your life. If you encounter a woman that seems interesting approach her politely and ask her if she would care to join you for a coffee. Fortune favors the brave. Do not be passive and expect life to come to you.

[dustybiker2]

I always suggest the same. Good advice.

[thatshydork]

Be kind, nice (and not that bs where the guy is only nice to get what he wants, actually be nice), funny, confident, and charming. Then you’ll come by the right people to be around.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I happily accepted that I'd rather stay picky and fussy and I instead just enjoy my single life and whenever I really have to, to be blunt, I can always just pleasure myself, quick few minutes, and time carries on.
Why need a partner, right? A chick who maybe takes a lot more time and effort than just those few minutes of myself to myself. Lol. 😄

[itsclearlynicholas]

@simon I'm probably the most real answer you're gonna see in a long time there with my answer above lol I should've said read ah well - cheerfully anyways 👀👌🏻✋🏻🤣

[itsclearlynicholas]

Or you've seen in a long time lol more typos. Sighs. Ah well. Each to his own views 😏😁

[itsclearlynicholas]

And I remind myself, all my time, effort, she could always one day I find cheating, or divorcing or even plain stating "I'm over you" lol - ♀️👠 lol women. Ah well

[itsclearlynicholas]

So I feel, I'm happier single, so I don't have anything to then later on feel like "all that time and effort wasted" lol hurt lol ❤️ 💔

[V_Injector]

Gym time. If you're not fat, use the gym with a bodybuilder's mindset. If you're fat... look at the gym with a marathon mindset.

The gym-maxxing will turn a guy who has no gift of gab a hand-over-fist advantage on getting the panties to drop.

[V_Injector]

Thank you... you social rejects and tards. Now go consider eating tide-pods.

[dustybiker2]

As @northerngal basically already said you have to expose yourself to new things, and keep going. Get out there and live.

[CaptainOverthink]

Dancing-courses. Learn to pairdance then go social dancing. You'll meet plenty of women wanting to meet others.

[katiesmuff]

Yes! Turn off your phone or computer and get the fuck out into the world where people are and begin meeting people.

[OtterMan68]

Don't come across as desperate.

Put yourself out there: take part in activities you like, and maybe you'll meet someone there: art classes, sports, exercise classes, etc.

[Nikki1989]

Get out in the real world and meet people, and certainly NEVER listen to any of the negative nonsense men post on here.

[Courtneyblabla]

Just be yourself. Be open to meet new people. Just talk to them like a friend would and eventually, you’ll get there. It’s a process.

[Anonymous]

You need to understand that getting a girlfriend is not a solution to a problem like loneliness. If you're not comfortable in your own skin, you will be destroyed... and you will be seeking happiness through another person forever...

[JHAYES317]

Need more info…why can’t you find a girlfriend? Are you unattractive? Or are your standards unrealistic?

[grega239]

Stop worrying about women. Find something interesting to do instead of wasting your life on women

[Awesomesauce2005]

Knock about 25 years off your life. Boom, a solution 👌

[jahaims]

Ask your friends for their honest opinion on this question

[NathanDavis]

not once in 47 years?

[Amara_09]

Why are you looking for a girlfriend?

[Sonorous]

Up your status & wealth.

[laly520]

not without a specific context

[sheikalana]

Keep looking don't give up.

[Unit1]

Oh well. Good luck skrub.

[DextroShade]

Lift, get money, learn game.

[Anonymous]

girlfriend for what? Sex?

[Anonymous]

I would love to be your girlfriend

[Tstrbrainer]

Well, @simon you found your girl