I can't find a girlfriend? Why?

[Anonymous]

I can't find a girlfriend, i tried for years but i'm still lonely as fuck.21 years old,22 in 5 months and i've never touched, hugged or kissed a girl... I am not even joking, the most physical interaction i had with women was just touching their Arms to ask something.

I just dont understand, i have a decent face , i try my best to be a good honest person, i shower everyday i'm very hygenic, i read books i'm interested in many things but no, not even One girl was interested to me through my whole life. I'm 5'7 and many people say that women dislike short men a lot but i see short men wandering around with their girlfriends, so what can be the reason, WHAT?

[ShadowMonarch]

It could be anything. maybe you have a decent body but don't dress nice or maybe you don't know how to talk to girls or maybe it's the way you walk or maybe it could be the way how you act. Girls are like scanners they notice everything. They even have good intuition so could be anything. Could you share about how they rejected you? what did the say about that

[Asker]

They didn't say anything specific,"you're a good guy but i want to be alone right now"

[TheFlak38]

If you have to struggle to find one then you're playing a rigged game. Give up. Women can only increase their standards and irrational demands over time. They will never compromise for less. If you don't meet their astronomical standards it's over for you.

[Asker]

Damn...

[Anonymous]

How many girls have you approached? How often do you make a move on someone? How often do you go out and meet new people?

[ShadowMonarch]

I'll go with her questions, if you don't interact with people how can you get a girl

[Asker]

Did a few times, got rejected... İ used to meet many women (1-2 years ago) but nowadays not so much, not gonna lie

But that's not the issue tho, i'm asking why no girl was interested in me

[Anonymous]

You sound like a nerd/nice guy. That bores women, especially young women.

The main reason it turns them off is because it makes you seem like a bit of a wimp. Women prefer masculine men.

Go lift some weights and train in combat sports. That’ll give you a more masculine vibe.

Drop the nice guy stuff also. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind, risk offending people. Be more forward and blunt.

[Anonymous]

OK, your only 21/22 what's the rush to find a girlfriend? You will not be in your prime until your 30's. At your age you'd be better off focusing on your career until then.
A word of warning - if women who have been around you for ages suddenly start 'noticing' you as your career progresses, they are probably looking to 'settle'

[Anonymous]

You don't pick up their hints.

Or you're not hard enough.

Or you're too licked up all the time that they assume you're taken.

[In_Trance]

You need to change your game.
You can't keep doing the same thing expecting different results

[Asker]

What can i do?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

If You’re not in Indonesia, I guess that’s why, mate!

[Anonymous]

A reminder of how much I have grown to hate and despise reality for being the way it is but sadly can't do anything to change it

[Anonymous]

Lmao I'm 33 and I'm like you