How do some people find boyfriends/girlfriends so easily?

Anonymous

Why are there some people that can easily get into serious relationships, and always seem to find people that they like and like them back? Is it their personality or are they just more open and make more of an effort to date and meet people?

I'm 25 and people say I'm pretty, I'm a decently nice person and I'm reasonably smart. I'm also quite funny. I don't think there's anything 'wrong' with me per se. I'm just a normal girl. I have no problem making friends and people like me but I am just perpetually single. I do want a relationship eventually but have never been in one. I've been in the talking stage with guys but it just doesn't work out and go past that. Guys/people are always surprised when I say I'm single.

I just can't find anyone I click with I suppose? My friends say I'm too picky but I just genuinely don't click with the guys enough to spend loads of time with them and enter a relationship. I also just don't end up catching romantic feelings for them.

How do others find people they click with so easily and want them back as well? Might it be something to do with my personality? Or am I too picky? Can anyone provide some insight?

How do some people find boyfriends/girlfriends so easily?
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