Girls, if you withhold sex from your boyfriend/ husband, how long until you accept him cheating?

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Disclaimer: Don't waste your time posting "cheating is never acceptable." Or "why not just leave," because anyone with half a brain knows that relationships and the willingness to stay are complicated.

I think everyone would agree that men greatly desire, and arguably need sex. One of the biggest reasons we enter a relationship is so that we can have regular sex with our significant other (this isn't the only reason ofc, but it's a big one).

However, things happen, things change, and there may come a time when your partner (the girl in this scenario) may not be receptive to sex for a long time. There are the well known phenomena of "sexless marriages," however, many people find themselves in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships long-term, which can also turn sexless for a long time (over 1-3 months)

Not in the mood
Not in the mood

So, for the women on here, how long would you deprive your boyfriend/ husband of sex (whether it be out of spite, or just because you're not feeling it) who is openly pursuing it with you, before in the event he cheats you're open to the idea of understanding why he did it. This doesn't mean you would forgive him, or be willing to work through it, but that you would be open to accepting some responsibility in what occurred (as you were the one who deprived him of sex).

Girls, if you withhold sex from your boyfriend/ husband, how long until you accept him cheating?
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