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Met her a few months ago while visiting the club I have gone to for a while now. I turned down dances from her for a few visits opting for conversation and drinks instead.

We eventually hung out with a mutual friend of ours at a bar, played pool, shot the shit. Turns out we got a bit in common with humor, travels and interests. She is currently a part time model and a student going for a marketing degree online.

So I finally got a dance from her one visit along with her number. She texted me the day after getting it saying she enjoyed spending time with me and that I was sweet.

She has never asked me to come see her in the club like lots of strippers do. We have flirted a lot over text, sending gifs, emojis, she sent two selfies (one from underwear shoot, then other a selfie in a white dress) and long messages/replies.

We went out on a lunch date. She fed me a piece of my meal and had her phone away the entire time, also paid for the food when I had my wallet out. I tried to go for a kiss, but she turned it down saying she had sushi breath. Sent me a gif of two people kissing instead.

In the club when we hang out she never asks me to tie her, she has given me kisses to the cheek and always laughs and smiles with me (did the laughing and smiling outside club too). She has given me a massage before, no mention of charge, seems excited when she sees me.

Tried to cheer me up the other week when our mutual friend and I got into a fight, checked in on me and asked how I was.

She asked me things like "How many kids do I want?" "What do you value in a relationship?" "What do you like in a woman?"

Recently she said I was in a dream she had and asked if she would look better with darker blonde hair or lighter. She also texted me last week she would come up for air soon ( said something similar the day we had our lunch date)

I am not sure if this is part of her game, but I am staying arms length away to stay detached.