I always dreamed to date a guy who is sweet, romantic, emotional and even able to cry in front of me. But I once heard a quote : I know girls want a sensitive carring Man, but it’s seem that these men loves each others instead of loving girls 😞. And the only guys that act this way turn out to be manipulative jerks. Of course I want him to have balls, but can a straight guy be truly sensitive enough to cry when he see something sad, or to find something ( like a kitten or a baby) very cute?
Men naturally cry less at sad things, and that's a natural side effect of the testosterone vs progesterone balance. Women of course naturally have less testosterone and more progesterone, therefore they cry more and get more emotional.
That's why you won't find a man "with balls" who also cries a lot. I really can't understand the obsession that women have on this site with men crying, it's weird. I can see why you'd want a guy who was sensitive when it comes to feelings, able to talk about emotions, have empathy etc. But women here seem to want men to cry at everything, while being masculine at the same time. Such men don't exist. You're either gonna get a masculine man or a guy who cries at everything but isn't masculine at all.
My wife has seen me cry on more than one occasion, and we're both okay with that. Men are HUMANS, just like you. Some are insensitive and cold (just like some women), and some are kind-hearted and emotionally mature (just like some women).
You just gotta keep looking.
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Oh yea! My man is very sensitive I’ve never met anyone like him. But he also very manly. I love it. I pray for him an God answered my prayers. The only thing I love the most about him being sensitive is he’s not afraid of showing emotions like most men they cover it up like they don’t have emotions. It’s unrealistic
Yes, they do. But like many introverts and other people, they are selective in who they show this side too because they received a lot of hell for just being the opposite of a macho-man. Some also have been abused.
Sensitive guys do exist. And they don't have to be gay. My boyfriend, though very manly, has a very soft side and is very sensitive when it comes to me. I didn't even know he could get mad until his friends told me, because he values our relationship more than his anger. But he is also very sensitive like being insecure and scared that I might hate him. I love him for the life of me but he really is bad at letting himself be the sensitive guy he actually is. He puts his own emotions on me instead. "You're so sensitive that I can barely even touch you".
I have two sides to me The one that has been described by an old crush/friend as the sweetest guy she had ever met, period. And the other one other would describe as cruel, heartless, and lacking compassion. Depends on who you are.
I have feelings like everyone else, I feel pain. I just don't go about it by crying in front of girls. Not because I feel weak doing it, but because it's hard for me to cry. I tend to let my emotions out through anger. Channeling them instead of allowing myself to just feel.
There are sensitive guys. Unfortunately females don't notice them as boyfriend material. I Can tell cause I'm that guy. I cry for movies, I keep pictures, even volunteer at shelter. But they look at me as the guy who just is plain old lame. And tbh iv started to feel happy about it now. Screw them if they are not interested. They just lost a really good guy. You want to find mr sensitive you must be Willing to let some other thing go. For eg good body looks, a sensitive guy will usually b a hardcore fan of something like books, movies etc. To gain some things u have to lose something.
Personally, I wouldn’t want my man to be too sensitive. I am the woman in the relationship and I need a man to strengthen me. My man is so closed off, but because we are so close, he shows me the side no one else gets to see, and I think that beats everything... inside every “manly” guy, you will see little bits of care and sensitivity. There’s mystery in our relationship and it keeps me on my toes. Man, I love him.
Don't forget, the best fish, are usually rare, and hard to find. So don't expect it to be easy and know to never give up. So as long as you're willing to take the time like me, and wait for the right person to be in front of you, you may just hit Jackpot
Guys can be sensitive. But I'm sorry, they don't have an emotional range anything like that of girls. Also, if men cry after growing up, they do so only a few times, maybe 2-3 times in their whole lives. And if you have seen a man cry, he is actually at his lowest.
Well, you're obviously older than me so I'm going to accept that maybe men cry when they are at their happiest too, I'm just 20, I haven't had a son yet. But, I've never cried because of happiness, yet! And I certainly hope I don't do so. Because I think I look very weak and vulnerable if I cry. I think most men would agree with me.
Yeah im a hopeless romantic that cares very deeply, is generally in touch with my emotions and is described as wearing my heart on my sleeve. If i fall for someone there is nothing i won't do, I've written love songs that have taken me days to perfect just as something cute to show her i care. I train in martial arts and have done for 19 years now so im no pushover but my good nature gets me mistreated and cheated on so im not suprirsed most guys like me turn into assholes.
The good guys are living alone after giving up on relationships because of all the women that use them. My dating life is far from being anything great. I am starting to give up on relationships because of all other relationships that I have had in the past 10 years. I can find women who use me, but none who will respect me.
I am an emotional guy though i find it hard to cry infront of others... bt face sometimes reveals things that gives a hint that i get emotional or i m about to cry... to be honest i m a nurturing person and one day i will like to end up with a nurturing girl as well.
I know a sensitive guy, he's such a crybaby. Not my type, but yeah they exist.
Also, most guys are more sensitive than they pretend to be, you just need to get to know them better before they dare to show you that side of themselves.
Thank you for saying that. Because its true. Guys are like onions you need to peal the layers back to get to the center for the sides you won't see otherwise
So your saying that any one person shows 100% of who they are all the time? Thats bull shit go take some psychology classes and learn. Because if you think otherwise your an idiot
If other women and men didn't shame that then there would be more. I'm not gonna lie, I cried in front of my ex once, no twice. She said the same things you said and she got turned off by it. I'm sensitive and I blame my single mom for it lol. Yes, they exist but society has told them to not cry or be all lovely dovey because it's not "manly" and they are "betas" and no one wants a beta or a cry baby. Still regret crying in front of her...
They do, but you're doing a disservice to men by acting like they're something any woman would want. If boys want to be successful with women they need to understand showing vulnerability makes pussy dry up faster than anything else under the sun.
Sure they do, but also do bullshitters and heartbreak traumas. Someone can be sensitive up to the point that another person uses that sensitivity against them and breaks them. Traumas like this often causes people to change their behavior or even their personalities, as to not suffer from the same problem twice...
Well, one girl said I'm sensitive. Compared to her. She is like rock. But that kind of sensitive? Eeeh… There might be that kind of guys, but they don't look like like the one on pic, so as far as girls are concerned, they don't exist. Yeah, I call on your bullshit. not you specifically, like…girl in general.
Those aren't even hard criteria to find tbh. Trust me when I say, I cry at many a movie. I just don't let people see it 😂 Also, a lot of guys find cute things cute. We just don't usually go around making baby faces at them. 🤷♂️ If you need more than that from a guy, you are getting to the over emotion category of people that usually have depression or some other mental/hormonal issue going on.
Until you have one of these and realise it's not what you are looking for.
Guys often times ARE sensitive. But male sensitivity is DIFFERENT to female sensitivity. If you want someone to cry together with you while watching some corny romance movie - go find a female best friend.
lol what bullshit. Women *HATE* vulnerability in reality, they're wired to *USE* sensitive men as providers (usually via divorce rape) while they fuck Mr. Badass Rebel who's probably gonna dump her down the line for a younger woman anyway cus he doesn't give a fuck about women besides sex.
Most men are just as trashy, most people are garbage in general. The people who rise above this crap are rare.
I'm a strong straight caring man that can be sensitive sometimes. But I think all babies are kind of ugly. The kitties might be cute sometimes, but not babies. I'd like a girl that can be normal in public, but when at home can be all mushy/sensitive and physically clingy sometimes. not all the time, but sometimes it would be good.
@beansprouts I'd feel really awkward in public being like that. I only like holding hands, or maybe a hug in public at the most. I don't even like to kiss in front of other people.
here's to another amazing gag question. So we have the following
1. She wants a guy who can cry in front of her because he is so sensitive and has the false impression that she will truly like the guy, as if she hasn't met any such guys but eventually friend zoned them because they turned her pussy into the Sahara desert.
2. BUT... she wants the guy to have balls. She wants a tough guy.
3. She asks for things and yet has nothing to offer besides the area between her legs.
My boyfriend is all of those things you described. He's incredibly sweet, supports all of my decisions and is very romantic. He also cries if things get too emotional. However he needs a lot of encouragement to dare doing new things. He is shy and not very decisive. He rarely takes the first step and it's me who has to lead the relationship. I live him very much. But the point is you can't have all the good traits of all personality types.
Of course there are. Plenty of them in fact. But they all get rejected or cheated on by their first girlfriend. So they harden up. You should take one young.
It's better to take one who is only sensitive with you. Take one who cares for very few things
Girls usually say that, but the reality is that they never go for those guys and then get angry that the guy they picked instead isn't more like the guys they ignored. Also, guys like that get used by women one way or another and they either toughen up or give up on women.
Well I would say I'm quite like that, I have cried in front of my girlfriend a couple of times, she had a toubled past and seeing other people suffer moves me deeply, although I find myself sometimes unable to express my own emotions, other people emotions always affect me a lot, and seeing her suffering did quick work on me, it has also happened on other occasions
I think they can make me watch mufasas death scene in the lion king and I'll get tears everytime, however if they are just people dieing or sad scenes regarding them it barely nudges me. Seems ik empathetic more towards animals
lol you were doing fine then you said "Of course i want him to have balls" (I'm assuming you didn't mean in the literal sense) Let me ask you this I want a woman with a good heart but of course i want her to look like Scarlett Johansson. Do these women truly exist? Because that's the equivalent of what you just asked. There's nothing wrong with having desires but if you're not perfect you probably shouldn't expect perfection.
Yes! My boyfriend is extremely sensitive and it has its pros and cons. He gets me more but he’s so sensitive sometimes and takes things so easily to heart that it gets so frustrating when I constantly have to say I was joking or no, I’m not mad. He’s not very confident so he needs constant reassurance.
I have been with my wife for 16 years and she is my Queen. There are many manly men that are still confident to share their feelings, be vulnerable they feel they can trust you & sadly sometimes it takes time, discernment on your part. I hope this makes some sense. He's out there.
Yes I'm a very sensitive type of guy and I'm very shy i like to show my love to a girl , i believe in sharing , caring, giving, hugs, cuddling , taking romantic walks, being affectionate , i like public displays of affection.
I'm pretty sensitive and fragile but I dont like kids. Kids gotta go. Also I can't cry but I do get extremely sad. And I'm only into women so there's that too. I think I'm a rare kind of guy, but I do exist.
Yes, we do, and we are used to. Give confidence to a guy who you like, and someone who act conscious of his emotional side and you will see, we cry too.
Yes, they do exist... Me for instance, I'm very caring, ask anyone on here. And yes, kittens are very cute, although a baby is a bit out there. P. S. Why the hell is he smelling a flower?
Only really do those things when alone, when someone's with me it just gets unconsciously turned off, besides no matter who they are or what they say, they will judge you for it at one point or another.
Crying over a kitten comes from estrogen. Men have testosterone. So no its not really possible what you're asking unless you find a man with hormonal problems. In which case he will not act like a man.
I'm one of them, I've been friend zoned a lot and I guess I haven't met the right girl yet. I don't cry but I get depressed for no reason, I take an herbal supplement for that.
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