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"That Beautiful Cashier Girl" - A Sequel

Delivering a message. It is Easter in southern Finland. A certain beautiful cashier girl has frequented my thoughts ever since we started noticing each other at my hometown supermarket. This Thursday I found myself...

Moray

Xper 6 Age: 37

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Break Up & Divorce

Is it cheating if you weren't officially girlfriend and boyfriend yet?

So this is something I've been struggling with, because I am not sure if I get attached too quick or if they were actually in the wrong. Over the past 2 years, I've been in 3 relationships, the first and third one only...

Golden1445

Explorer Age: 34

Dating

What do I do if your boyfriend says he’s stressed? (And he asked for it)?

I need real advice only please. My boyfriend and I have been together a year and I’m old! We have talked about being together forever and at first he said by the new year. We are also long distance. I waited patiently and...

Alyssa226

Xper 4 Age: 46

Dating

Should I wait for her to respond?

I met this girl at my wedding, she was totally out of my league. But I guess she found something interesting about me and started every conversation to get me to open up. I didn’t know what to think, we hit it off pretty...

Valentinian

Xper 4 Age: 29

Relationships

If a romantic partner breaks up with you during a heated altercation, did they actually mean it?

My boyfriend and I were having a wonderful night together a couple of hours before the argument began and kept telling me how in love and happy he is with me. We attended a Broadway show and had dinner together. The whole...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why do you think he blocked me?

Met a guy online months ago. It was great but I was traveling so we couldn’t meet. We had some differences and he stopped talking to me. I left it for weeks and texted him when we were in the same city. He was excited...

Laurafd

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

Should I wait or should I cut off all contact (Online dating - met once - little/no contact)?

We exchanged numbers and spoke. Initially I didn't see him as more than a friend, but when I approached him for dating advice, he seemed protective of me, jealous and told me to not date another guy from that site....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I've made a series of mistakes trying to ask a crush out, do I have any hope left? Or should I try to move on?

I am 17, and have not dated once, so I lack all necessary skills that make dating easier to accomplish, such as flirting. In addition to this, I have for the most of my relatively short life been an achievement oriented...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

13 Struggles of Growing Up in a Strict Home

Don't even get me started on that friend who just invited me somewhere last minute..... Hey guys it's Tadie back at it again with a Mytake. I know it's been a while but I just haven't had a spark of inspiration. I thought...

txdiie_

Editor Age: 23

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Guy's Behavior

boyfriend talks/texts other people? What is he really doing?

NoName453

Xper 4 Age: 38

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We started talking 5 months before that. [(He broke up with me after a month because I wouldn't sleep with him. But we got back

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We started talking 5 months before that. [(He broke up with me after a month because I wouldn't sleep with him. But we got back together.)((I waited for marriage with my exhusband and I view sex differently than others do. He was very abusive that is why we are no longer together.))] Anyway, he broke up with me again in November saying that he couldn't deal with me having a child.

He slept with a couple people (including a pretty ex) texting more. We got back together after about three weeks of us being broken up even though we were around each other all the time.
I got let go and I saw that he texted a girl from work the day after I got fired. I confronted him about it. He said he didn't know why he texted her that it seemed like something to do because he had to ask about his schedule. But that it wouldn't have went anywhere. I asked if he wanted an open relationship but he said no because he wouldn't want me doing the same. I've seen him texting and talking to two other ones.
I asked him what he was doing. If he really wanted a relationship with someone else or what. He said it was just talking and running into each other at work. Said I was who he loved and what he wanted. That it was just conversation that he did it for excitement.
I asked him if I wanted him to join a dating app if he would for me. He asked why? I told him if it was just conversation and flirting. He could do that. He said he deleted stuff like that a long time ago and that he didn't need them. So I asked if "the endgame really was to sleep with her." (Because that to me sounds like he actually likes this person and really wants to persue her.) He told me the endgame was to be 89 sleeping with me.
But I asked him once more before work if he actually wanted to have sex with her. If it went that far if he would not. He said "What do you want me to say?" Then he replied "Yes. I would fuck her. And then I'd leave her alone. And she'd leave me alone."

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Dating

30 Ways to Know if Your Boy Really Loves You!

Here's how you know… 1. He cannot stop thinking about you 2. He cannot stop talking about you 3. He can not stop looking at you, and in fact, he cannot get enough of you 4. He never tires of being with you and around you...

laurieluvsit

Master Age: 31

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Entertainment & Arts

A story: themetalhead's first concert ever.

Once upon a time, there lived a chick called thepopgoddess. Quite a pop music lover she was. She lived and breathed music. One day she was calling a radio station, trying to win a contest for katy perry tickets. She had...

themetalhead

Editor Age: 26

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Relationships

Meet a guy online and we fastly became very close, but he's never dated before and he's very busy with college and work! What should I do?

So I meet this guy through a moba game and we had a deep conversation even though we were on opposite teams. At the end of the match he sent me a friend request and I accepted. We proceded to play together. We'll fast...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Saying I love you first and what to do when you scare your partner?

I've been with my boyfriend for four months. There has been ups and downs. His mom lung & bone cancer & he lost his job. During his breakdown I stuck it out with him. I met everyone in his family. Was invited to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Guide to Being a Good Wedding Guest

1. Be happy for the bride and groom or don't show up I once went to a wedding where the bride's aunt, a nasty woman whom practically no one liked, simply showed up after not being invited, and sat at one of the main...

BeeNee

Editor Age: 43

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Guy's Behavior

Is he never interested in me from the beginning?

So, I know this shy guy from 7 years ago. On Nov 2016 he commented on my post. He commented again on my picture with a guy (my cousin). Since then I initiated chat with him. We'll chat for a week and off for a week....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

We went on 4 dates and I'm not sure if he is going to ghost, is doing the slow fade, stringing me along, bread crumbing whatever you want to call it?

Before 4th date he asked me out for NYE which would be meeting friends, but couldn't make it due to going on vaca. He asked to hang out before I left but I was busy but said would love to hang out when I get back. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Went on 4 dates. He always tries to initiate convo with me. Is he stringing me along and will he eventually ghost?

Before 4th date he asks out for NYE which involved meeting friends. I couldn’t due to going on vaca. After date he asks to hang during the week before I leave, but I said I was busy but love to when I get back. He texted...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I wait for her to text me or should I call her and ask her out?

I met a girl on tinder who goes to the same university as me. I took her on nice dates three times and after each date she invited me into her dorm. The first time we just talked but the second two times we got pretty...

Fourth

Xper 4 Age: 29

Relationships

Stop F***ing Up Your Good Relationship!

It seems like relationships these days barely last. Here's my input on the major problems and simple solutions to those same issues that plague good relationships. Bad communication Nobody has ESP. If you are not able to...

SweedyPie

Yoda Age: 33

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