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My girlfriend soon to be fiance told me she'd only been with two men. Literally about a week before our wedding, a guy came to our door to which she objected letting him in. He told me he just wanted to talk to me about her past as she probably wasn't entirely truthful. I didn't want to hear it because he was some random guy not to mention she was totally objecting him coming in.

Cool, fastfoward a few days later. I get home from work and check the mail to find a letter from him not only detailing a myriad of escapades with her, but pictures of her being trained by more than 20+ different men. When I walked in with the photos, she broke down crying and started shaking.

Why didn't she just tell me? On one hand I understand why she hid it, but on the other now I feel sort of... I don't know. She broke off the marriage though. She said she felt tainted. Even though I'm asking this question, I'm not sure how I would've taken it. Honestly... I was pretty disgusted.

So I just got Friendzone, and it sucks. The thing about Friendzone is basically a reality slap across your face, saying you are not meeting my level of sexual interest, or otherwise, she is just scared to break the friendship.

It is a strong concern for me how Friendzone is becoming a term of rejection, a horrible rejection, giving this slight hope to the person, not realizing what could bring that person to so much struggle with this sketchy hope. Why people can't be Real? Just say it. Break the friendship cuz sometimes you have to realize how awful frienzoning is, in terms of how people having materialistic belief on their future boyfriend/girlfriend, when the person right in front of you is showing the realest and truthful love. People should feel some sort of guilt when they Friendzone, cuz basically they look for interest, not commitment. And I understand it is a consequence for being a human, our mere body is possessed with material and spiritual. But people should realize, if they can't deal with the materialistic problem they have, then don't Friendzone them, because they have to understand that they are not worth to be a friend of her/his, after all being a friend and knowing who the person is. Knowing him/her enough to accept him/her as a friend, but then you Friendzone him/her.

I might be just frustrated for being Friendzoned, but I think I have a point in here. So guys, what do you guys think? When you Friendzone a person, do you have to live up with the consequence, for happening it? And how will you deal with it when you Friendzone them?