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After a bad first impression meet, we decided not to talk for about a week. Finally, I was the one to break the ice and talk to him again. We started talking like we normally did, we made each other laugh and discussed our similarities. That was one of the main reasons I liked talking to him, we had so much in common. Except when it came to the relationship talks, as I've told him numerous amounts of times that it made me uncomfortable... sometimes he drops it. So anyways, we decided to meet up for drinks and it was supposed to be just us except there was a change in plans where my sister had to tag along. He was distant, he answered my questions but he was not really responsive. So, we cut the night short and parted ways. He texted me he had a great time, which I knew was a lie and he'd text me when he'd got home. So when I got home, he began to text me. He called and we started our giggling fits and what not. Which later turned to face timing. Then it got awkward really fast. It's like he loses his speech when he comes to face to face communication. He started talking about cuddling, hand holding, hugs and future talk. [dude, we've only known each other for 2 weeks] So it turned into an awkward stare off for about 30 minutes. His phone cut off and froze. I hung up because what was I supposed to do? He texted saying I left him. I said no, and he tried calling me again but I didn't answer and I was upset because he wasn't talking to me. Because I was a little uncomfortable with our last conversation. He texted me saying; you hung up on me, you rejected my phone call and I'm done, lose my number. I was left confused and a little hurt. I said back that I was upset and uncomfortable and he was acting insensitive because I told him I had limits. He seemed like he had a hard time understanding that. I said that he was pushing the relationship wagon too fast and I wanted to take it slow. I called him an insensitive creep. Eventually led to him saying I'm done, goodbye.

Today I logged onto Facebook. The very first post I saw was a picture my boyfriend was tagged in. It was a screenshot of a snapchat that he took of him and a girl and the caption said, "Studying with my bae."

I screenshotted it and sent it to him and essentially accused him of cheating.

He freaked out. Apparently the picture was news to him. He said that he had taken the picture during class and showed it to her and she took the phone, wrote the caption, and sent it to herself and then posted it on FB and tagged him in it.

He called to try to explain (we're long distance but the long distance is ending on Tuesday) and I was in tears.

He made her take the picture down. He said she "apologized profusely" for her actions and he also said that she had a boyfriend.

He seemed genuine and I'm pretty good at reading people but either he's the best bull shitter I've ever met, or I'm completely insane.

He and I have dated for 3 years and never has he EVER given me cause to doubt him. He has been doting and attentive and supportive and a great boyfriend.

I've NEVER doubted him. Until I logged onto Facebook and saw that picture. It was like getting the rug yanked out from under you and being stabbed in the chest a thousand times.

So... should I dump him or should I stay and work it out?

I just can't imagine a girl doing what he claims she did if she in fact had a boyfriend.

I just don't know :/