Search Results: should i ask a busy guy out

He says im the only girl he talks to but ignores me. What should I believe?

I've been seeing this guy for months. He is consistent but goes days without talking to me and never has an excuse for it. At one point, his consistent dropped even more and he would text me once a day (said he wasn't a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

So my ex said to me I’m not over you. But I don’t want to be with you every weekend?

What in the f*** does this silly shit mean? I’m not over you. But I don’t want to be with you every weekend. I’m sorry. My ex and I recently split after being together for almost 4 years. He broke up with me in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

As a girl should I be the one making all the first moves?

met this guy 3 years ago at uni (who has a player rep). since we met we have messaged on and off, he’s always replied really quick but ends up leaving me on read. Because of past hurt I have a massive guard up and he’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Should the girl make the first move?

I met this guy 3 years ago at uni (who has a player rep). since we met we have messaged on and off, he’s always replied really quick but ends up leaving me on read. Because of past hurt I have a massive guard up and he’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is he being out of line?

So I worked with a guy who is new to my city and did not know English too well either. I felt sorry for him so I befriended him. I am in a relationship so I was only ever friendly with him. I met him for coffee after work...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Just busy or not interested anymore?

I matched with this guy on a dating app and we got along really well, talking everyday with lengthy responses from both sides. After almost 3 weeks, we went out on a date and it went well. Laughed a lot and really enjoyed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Do guys regret treating a good women badly?

I have recently been broken up with. I am one month into limited contact. I was a very good girlfriend, I cooked, cleaned and always put him first. I even ran errands for him when he was super busy with work, and...

Jessrobbins123

Xper 2 Age: 29

Dating

If I asked this guy out on the first date, should I be the one to ask him out on the second one too?

A week ago, I went out on a date with a friend I matched with. I asked him out, but he followed up and planned the date. He was the more talkative person, the body language was good and there was a lot of laughter. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Why did he cancel plans with his best friend to hang out with me?

I have been dating this guys for like two or three weeks now and this weeks has been really rough as we were both extremely busy with work. He was on call at work this week and due to some storms, he got called in and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Overthinking a situation?

I'm talking to this guy and I was trying to be let him go and enjoy the next of his night before he went back to work the next day! We kept talking after that and I was trying to be cute and funny by saying "so you know...

Angie2015

Xper 2 Age: 29

Dating

What do I do next?

So I've been seeing this guy for the past year. I thought everything was great. I felt we had a good bond and we were getting more comfortable over time. Anyway, fast forward to Sunday evening. I spotted he had a dating...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Opinions on what to do?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why is my friend (and crush) acting like this all of a sudden? Please help me figure some things out?

My shy guy friend who I have a crush on told me he misses me, that we should hang out and sent a ❤️. He rarely shows emotions or uses emojis. He rarely initiates contact but seems happy when I do. I asked him if he wanted...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Should I text him?

So I met this guy online and we hit off immediately like our messages basically turned into novels at some point. He then asked for my number and asked me out. Our date went okay I would say. We talked and he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I text him/ask him out?

So I net this guy online and we hit off immediately like our messages basically turned into novels at some point. He then asked for my number and asked me out. Our date went okay I would say. We talked and he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Do you think he has a girlfriend/ seeing someone else or is he actually busy with work?

Me and this guy have been talking for like a month.. we were supposed to hook up but I wasn’t able to at that moment in time.. he respected it and said we should still keep talking.. he said his job is his main focus and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

When he lose interest?

crushing over a guy, feel like something off even though he still flirts w me and teases me. hasn’t asked me out yet even after i asked him once “what r ur plans for tonight”, he was busy, and didn’t ask for a rain check...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Need a guys perspective?

crushing over a nice, sweet, younger guy from my work place. i asked for his number, texted him first, we tease each other, flirts w each other all the time. he used to text me first sometimes now not anymore so i am...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

What Should I Do Next?

I approached this guy I met on campus a few months back. I walked up to him in the cafeteria while on campus. I was going to the Starbucks on campus with a friend of mine when I spotted him. He was sitting by himself on...

MelaninQueen21

Xper 5 Age: 26

Dating

What is wrong with me? Why do I fall so hard for men who are toxic or only want sex?

Im catching super hard feelings for this guy who says he's not even looking for a relationship and only wants sex. I agreed at first but then changed it.. felt like i would catch feelings for him and it would hurt me if...

Anonymous

(25-29)