So my ex said to me I’m not over you. But I don’t want to be with you every weekend?

[Anonymous]

What in the f*** does this silly shit mean? I’m not over you. But I don’t want to be with you every weekend. I’m sorry.
My ex and I recently split after being together for almost 4 years. He broke up with me in September and we’ve stayed in touch since then. The meetings and texting and talking have dwindled down to where this past week he has definitely been avoiding texts and calls I asked why he says he’s just been busy. He got jealous whenever he thought I went to lunch with a guy. But he went to meet up with a friend not a lover (his words) and I’m suppose to be okay with it then he texts me to check up on me and tell me they’re having a sale at this certain place that I should go. So I asked what’s the deal and he says I do love you I just don’t know what I want right now I’m not over you but I don’t want to see you every weekend…what in the actual f***?

[Daniela1982]

He is keeping his options open. He doesn't want to see you (except for sex) every weekend because he has his poker in a couple of other fires. He is an ex for a reason. You should keep it that way, unless you want to play the part of a "Poor Little Fool"

[Fireguy17]

He sounds confused, me unless you are still in love with him it may be best to move on.
it can be hard for you to move on with him there, and not saying he is, but he can kind of be trying to control you by doing/saying stuff like that.
After 6 months it is time.

[boggboss]

He wants u as a option or on demand but don't want to commit

[Sam_The_Savage]

That's means yourey best in sex 😍

[Wise4myage]

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