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Before we are together, my boyfriend added a lot of girls on his social media and flirted with them. I was ok with it as we weren't a couple and I asked him to delete those mean nothing to him. Last weekend, he asked me to pick up a phone call for him (he was taking a shower), and I noticed that one girl added him back and accused him of deleting her. He explained to her that I made him delete her but he has to do it because I am the most important thing to him. I don't know whether I should bring this up to him considering I shouldn't look into his phone.

I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 2 years now, and it’s been pretty crazy on his end. I haven’t done anything necessarily as bad as he has to me like lying and whatnot. Anyway though, I decided to visit him on the 26th of this month because he wanted to see me. We were making plans the whole week and decided that we were going to meet in the middle because I was uncomfortable driving the whole way there and back. But, 6 hours before the day arrived, he backed out the plan because he said he didn’t have the money to do it. I told him I’ll give him money, basically anything he needed to ensure that we meet in the middle but he declined everything. I was obviously upset because he had so many days to consider it and he canceled over something I could’ve helped him with.

I rely heavily on people’s words, if they say they’ll do something then I expect them to do it especially with my boyfriend. I feel like he wouldn’t have done that for a good friend or anyone else really so I don’t know why he did that to me. I did try to talk to him about it along with other issues like him blaming his behavior on things he shouldn’t, why saying “calm down” is very ineffective, and saying I’m “complaining” when I was clearly trying to discuss issues with him. Am I crazy? Should I have just let everything go? You tell me.