Foreign boyfriend from Omegle?

[ines_Ines]

Hi guys ! I downloaded this app just to ask this Question , please dont judge me as i don't have any experience in dating or relationships...
I am (23 F) met a guy (24 M) on Omelge while i was bored and we talk a little and he told me some really hard things that he went thorugh, so i offered to become his friend else where, and now we have been talking on IG for about 4 days... appearantly he has a lot to deal with especialñy emotionally and i have been really supporting of him ever since. And then, yesterday out of nowhere, he said " i wish i had a girlfriend like you!" And i replied with "if i get to know you more, i might consider" ...
He is a genuinely really interesting person, he has been emotionally abused in his past relationship , but again i dont know that much about him still, also we live in diffrent countires, but same time zone...

Should i give him a chance? (After i get to know him ofc ) or should i simply pass on and wait for someone irl? i kinda dont want that...

[SueShe]

You are aware that those dating sites, regardless which one you chose, are solely pick up and hook up sites and that a real friendship out of those sites are extremely rare?

I would be very cautious about this guy just happening to like you out of the blue just after a few hours' conversations. There is definitely more to it than he wants to admit.

Also, you being from Algeria and presumably bein Muslim, you have to be double careful about casual encounters as it may definitely upset a number of your family members.

I personally would not jump into this set trap and wait another 6+ months to wait and see how the situation develops.

One cannot have genuine feelings after a few days on a site that has the reputation to attract a great number of guys just attempting to hook up with any lady that is willing to listen to them.

[ines_Ines]

Omg ! Thank you so much for taking the time to reply to this! And also being really caring and considerate of my bg , i didn't want to include it fearing that people would judge me tol harshly... but i will surely follow you advice ! And see where this is going ! 💜💜

[SueShe]

Well, you are an adult and basically free to do whatever you want.

But being cautious does not mean not to do anything. You are forewarned and act accordingly. Good luck.

[ines_Ines]

Ofc! Thank you !

[abby172020]

well first of all i feel like you should get to know him more like ask him more about him and then decide i mean it is up to you.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I would suggest if you would choose to move forward with this guy take time and understand him after a month or two ask him to visit at your place not at hime but some where In your country after that if he still is the person you would wanna share your life with then it's your choice.


Be cautius about:

1. Donot help him out with money.
2. Don't just melt for the stories see that you really love him and it's not just you making an emotional judgement it would fuck both of you in long term.
3. donot jump into sex too early.

[ines_Ines]

Thats a really good advice! Thank you 😊

[maspaloma]

People on Omegle are only on there for one thing sex only it might happen right away or they will catfish you until you do I’ve been on both sides of the game so move on and find a real friend pm me if you want more information it took me four months to help a girl out of a bad situation on Omegle

[ines_Ines]

I won't have any form of sex with guy (online or real ) or anyone for that matter. Strictly, i would only engage in such thing after marriage. So, dont worry about that, but thank you for the reply! Much appreciated 😊

[maspaloma]

Your welcome just be careful that’s all

[ines_Ines]

I will! Thank you !

[Wise4myage]

Sure why not? Just take things slow and remain friends for now.

[ines_Ines]

Thats what i have been thinking... he's alright , but i dont wanna be L-bombed right away...

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, I hear you. Just make sure set boundaries.

[WesBrewer]

If you are willing to be patient and wait, then why not give him a chance.

[Iron_Man]

How’s that gonna work out different countries in a LDR?

[ines_Ines]

Maybe , yeah... im asking more about the emotional aspect of it... like , is it worth going into a relationship for? Or...

[Iron_Man]

No because it’s very expensive to meet and it’s a real longshot to ever meet

[Iron_Man]

And what if he stands you up and you’re in a foreign country by yourself

[ines_Ines]

You are right, that is certainly a possibility...

[Iron_Man]

It’s not worth years of investing

[ines_Ines]

I guess so... thanks for replying! 😊

[Iron_Man]

You are very welcome