Search Results: when a girl calls you sweet

Lori: Younger than you. Cute, funny, sweet, sexy, fun, has a nurturing, willing to please her man energy, when you ask others about her, her ex calls her very immature & sometimes a big crybaby, and some say she’s ditzy and dumb, others say she’s “not as innocent” as she portrays when it comes to her sex experiences.. whatever that means... take that however u like.

Olivia: Older than you. Smart, beautiful, look/sound/have feminine mannerism but has a very masculine energy, when conflict arise she really puts in a lot of effort to try to make her relationship work, when you ask people about her, her ex says she’s crazy others say she’s a bitch, some says she’s fake.

I would like to share what my boyfriend thinks about the dynamics in finding the right person in a relationship. He claims I'm one of the few loyal, stable, sweet girls. He thinks it's a lot harder for many men to find my types.

When we had this discussion, he points out that it's easier for us to find a good man because we're the one choosing him in the end (we have the last say in whether he becomes our boyfriend or not); the same way a candidate undergoes an interview for a job position and gets chosen after a lengthy process. Basically while he's doing the introduction, selling himself out there, paying for the date, etc all we do is select. If we select a loser, know what he's like and still stay with him instead of firing him just like they do on jobs then we got no one to blame but ourselves.

Guys on the other hand, have to do go through so much just to get the right introduction, have good looks or otherwise he can be confused as a creep, they're still meeting a stranger, have to deal with many rejections, being friendzoned while those very same girls would rather continue being with a cheating or abusive boyfriend (he called them the stupid girls) etc. What do you think? Is there some truth to what he's saying?