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Listen all you have to do is this. If you want to go on a date with him do it but TAKE YOUR TIME. Don't rush anything and don't assume cause obviously he's keeping his options open. He's definitely dating multiple girls and the reason you know that is because he posted himself on a date and still begging you for a date. He didn't contact you for three days cause he's juggling other girls. You feel me. There's no smoke and mirrors here its right in your face so be careful13
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99% of guys will be looking for sex. Whether he takes you on a sweet date before, doesn't change much. I'd bet money on it...14
Mam, you can go on the date like a normal date and if it looks like he is only interested in sex you can leave if you want.12
He can want love and sex together11
Just ask him what he wants...16
I can't really tell. Not enough information.0
Im no help with this one.0
Might be that your initial cancelling of the date rubbed him the wrong way. Maybe he thought you were making excuses to not go on a date with him and so he distanced himself, but then when you started to once again show interest he eventually got over it and now genuinely wants a "pumpkin date".
That’s true.. he did told me he wasn’t sure if it’s even going to happen, if I’m just playing hard to get, yet he was being understanding why I cancelled the date for personal things going on. That’s what happened like you said lol 😅 and I feel maybe my slow responses (5-6 hrs lol) don’t help but I’ve just been really busy with friends & family. Well he asked if I wanted a cute or pumpkin date. I mentioned what cute ideas he has? And how I might be free this weekend (didn’t specify I prefer Sunday and need to check on my agendas). But he hasn’t reply... what do you mean by “pumpkin date”? Like he only literally wanna carve a pumpkin with me? 😅 lol
He might be an impatient fellow. A lot of guys want things to progress swiftly with their romantic interests. And many might be greatly annoyed at slow texters ;P
Yes. I mean that he wants to sit there with you for five hours straight and carve pumpkins for the entire garden while he speaks of fond memories of Halloweens past.
No I'm joking. I'm sure he wants a date.
Lol ah... well he hasn’t reply to me all morning 😅 I guess he lost interest? I’m not sure if my response was bad to him or he wanted more chasing.
Lmao you’re funny, but yeah it did seemed like he really wanted a date with me before...
Aaw, sorry to hear that. Hard to say what goes through his mind. It could be either of what you suggested or that he's simply getting back at you for being slow by also being slow in replying.
He should want a date with you. Any man would be lucky to!
It’s a bit disappointing realizing I was looking forward to the date. But I would want someone who put more effort and be honest. I know I’m also guilty of not showing enough interest; lesson learn.
Aws, thanks for your kind words 😊