Search Results: whiter skin or tanned skin

Ok. First of all, I'm just going to say that I am NOT asking this to get pity. I just wanted to make that clear.

You know that friend that gives the best love advice but is always single? I'm that friend. I am turning 20 in 3 months, and I am pretty much the most single person out there. Always have been, and by the looks of things, probably always will be. I never get hit on, guys never approach me or try to flirt with me, and I am getting really sick of it.

Here is a quick description of myself, "Inside" and "outside"

outside: 160cm, 55 kg, developped chest area if you know what I mean lol, shoulder length brown hair, round brown eyes, straight and white teeth, tan skin, people say I have a nice smile. Some occasional pimples like every human being I guess. because of my ethnic background I am quite hairy but I shave\wax everything off. Glasses (I can't wear contacts for allergy reasons.)

inside: friendly, open-minded, hardworking, sensitive, determined, creative, caring.

more info : I play the violin and love music in general, I study law, I work hard but also love parties, although I like being alone a lot. I wear some makeup, but it's pretty natural (thin eyeliner and mascara, occasional lipstick.) I love joking around, laughing is important to me. I care a lot about nature and protecting our planet. I am neither a vegetarian nor a vegan. I like team sports like volleyball

Yeah I guess that's enough info?
Is there something wrong with me? All my friends have boyfriends and it seems like all the guys are taken and I feel so alone and left out...
Please be honest with me, but not rude :)

I have really pasty white skin, to the point where it has an almost purple tinge to it because of my veins. Do you think that I'm better off wearing fake tan whenever I'm in a dress, skirt or shorts or just going natural? I always feel self conscious with my natural skin tone but then again a lot of people find fake tan ugly and unattractive

I personally consider myself to be black, even though i'm 3/4ths white. I just get along better with other black girls and I like being black. I'm sort of Mariah Carey's complexion with brown hair and green eyes though. Whenever I tell people that I am black, they always try to deny it. Like no, you can't deny anyone of their blackness. Its rude. You can tell I have black in me from my nose. When I tan and krimp my hair, I look like a mixed-black woman.


^ This girl said in a livestream that she was a black woman, and no one batted an eyelid. (She's black, Native American and Mexican). Is it because her skin is tan? I don't know.