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I met this girl abroad studying, we became friends. I always had the feeling she liked me but didn't act on it because my friend liked her and he knew her longer. I gave him time until we all went home. She was always there for me when I was feeling bad because of dating stuff with other girls and also when I was sick (she gave me her medicine). After going home I was in contact with her quite a lot and I still am. I started to develop feelings and I wanted to wait to tell her until I would visit her in January, so she doesn't think I have low confidence (instead of doing it over the phone). But now I am thinking to do it over a video call because the situation is becoming really stressful and it would help a lot if I knew for sure how she feels. My friends told me to do this but I still have doubts about this approach.

Also keep in mind that me and the girl both struggle with depression and anxiety (her anxiety is worse/ panick attacks). Whenever she struggles with this she shuts down and doesn't know what to say to me and makes sure our contact is minimal (which is also the reason why it's stressful lately), maybe we would both benifit from having a open conversation about how we feel about eachother. I'm just scared she will lose interest because I do it on a video call instead of real life.

In a lot countries father's don't have equal rights as Mothers... hence the child often times get kept from the father and the child grows up without a father in his/her life.

Why do women blame men saying He was never there when she never allowed him to be?

I know a guy who dated a girl and she ran off with his kid to another city.
Let me be fair to both parties here he did make an effort but she never allowed him to even visit her son her son is 15 and wants nothing to do with his s dad because she black poisoned his mind against his father (who fought the court and lost)
Those years when she took his kid she told him the following. He made a voice recording and Copied it onto his old computer... he has made from dozens of copies and voice recordings As evidence to his Kid to show his kid d that he was interested in being part of his last few (if his kid ever wants to talk to his dad)
This was what Told The Dad
Her words: "you can't tell me XYZ about "my"(like it's her child alone) for you the kid is a luxury for me he is "my" (again like it's her kid alone) responsibility.
Years later she tells everyone that he was never around but he called and she never picked up her phone.
Truth is he still has reciepys of court costs of lawyers bills
Of father's rights attorney bills

The kid hates His dad...(refusing to hear both sides of the story)