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Search Results: being overweight
I feel like life is unfair because I ended up short and overweight and feel like all women find me ugly. How do I get over feeling upset about this?
The short version is, I never had any family or a loving mother growing up, and came from an abusive household. I thought I'd meet someone once I was grown up, but I never grew and ended up as a short, ugly dude in my...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why would someone do this?
I'm venting a little but feel free to chime in with your thoughts. I thought I would give love another try. 2 weeks ago I set up a profile on a dating website. I meet a woman who claims to be a Christian and...
jgokgotit
Yoda Age: 33 Is it weird I got put off him because his ex is unattractive?
I’m used to seeing guys that I’m dating ex and immediately freaking out and hitting the gym all week, making sure I look my best (bc usually those girls are gorgeous in my eyes) but i was looking through my new guys’s fb...
Anonymous
(25-29) I once had a woman contact me through a matchmaking agency and was eventually rejected by them, and now I'm just thinking what even happened that day.
TL;DR: A woman through a matchmaking service initiated interest in me, then stopped pursuing interest and I'm confused about what happened. So, one day, while I was asleep on the weekend, around noon or 1pm or so, I got...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 A big budget biopic of your life up to right now is being made. Who would you cast to play you?
I cast 6'3" Elizabeth Debicki to play me just to be as avant-garde/trollish as possible, considering she's basically my physical total opposite (I'm a short overweight black-and-mixed male). She'd still be playing a male,...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 Would you rather be overweight but with the love of your life or fit and single?
I understand some will say why can't I be both but I don't always see many fit moms/dads 🤔 Overall, could you be ok being overweight if you were with the one you love
Jjpayne
Editor Age: 42 
Could it be possible that your partner settled for you?
I believe that’s what my boyfriend did. We have been dating for a few months. He pursued me but it’s like I can’t really compete with the women I see him give his attention to when we’re out in public or even just on...
Anonymous
(30-35) Note to women on body postivity
The fact that women are in all shapes and sizes and are uniquely designed in accordance to their genetics, but often they underappreciate themselves just too look in a certain way as it is portrayed in the social media....
Vero4567
Xper 6 Age: 32 Is it bad I think it’s only bad for a woman to be obese or overweight?
Okay I think that it is only bad for a woman to be obese or overweight. Now don’t get me wrong I’m not promoting or saying that being obese or overweight is healthy, however what I am saying is that it’s only bad if a...
Anonymous
(30-35) I love my family but they make my life kind of miserable?
I’ve noticed a pattern in how my happiness shifts. It’s like I’m having an already shit day and it just gets even absolutely 10x worse when I get home. The state of our house is a complete shithole whether it’s how people...
Anonymous
(18-24) Need advise from women, please?
I'm 21 years old and still a virgin. I don't know how to stop being scared of women. I haven't even kissed a girl before and I want to change things around. What do I do? I know I'm handsome and have a great personality,...
estebanmilligan
Xper 3 Age: 27 Do you agree / believe this to be true? details below?
I read a fit and attractive woman gets more happiness from being physically beautiful than she does from being in a high quality romantic relationship So the fit ones without quality relationships were happier...
Why does it seem like women have the higher standards in terms of attractiveness When it comes to men?
I know we always hear how men have these unrealistic standards for women & how we expect too much from them. And yeah sure they're probably are a few men out there who have unrealistic standards for women. But honestly...
Anonymous
(30-35) Honest answers, please. Why are women so extremely picky and entitled nowadays?
I'm not trying to have this come off as some "Nice Guy" crap, but it is pretty annoying to see how many women - unattractive, uninteresting women with all kinds of flaws, personality, physical, or otherwise - think...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 What physical attribute/flaw do u think is most damaging to a guys self esteem?
Whether its being overweight, scars/skin issues, etc. what do u think makes a guy insecure the most?
Anonymous
(18-24) How to gain my confidence back and stop caring about my bullies/fair weather friends?
I was bullied growing up because I was overweight. I lost weight and felt like the ugliest person in the world and added weight back. Afterwards, I was in intensive therapy. I am now starting to realize my worth and gain...
taylor1098
Xper 6 Age: 29 I've been texting this girl for about 3 months now and I don't know if I'm being lead on or not. How can I tell for certain?
I really like her and she's mentioned she really likes me, we both feel like we click. But she's said she doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment which didn't make sense to me considering we met on a dating...
Anonymous
(25-29) TW: Should plus-sized women really wear bikinis?
TW = Trigger Warning if you're easily offended or if you're one of the "plus-sized" women I talk about in this Take. I don’t know since when this even began, but bikinis were not initially meant to be part of a plus-sized...
guywithissues900
Xper 5 Age: 34 Does body shaming only apply to people who are overweight?
This has honestly bothered me for a while now, the whole push for body positivity, and you're basically demonized if you even hint that somebody might be overweight. But apparently anybody under 5'2, has a rack smaller...
Anonymous
(36-45) What do you think about the body positivity or fat positivity movement?
Personally, I hate it, I think it's dumb. Not that I hate body positivity or fat people, I think body positivity itself is a great thing. But the movement has changed to become a sort of excuse for overweight or obese...
Nxtawm
Guru Age: 23 