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Okay so I recently got teamed up with a new partner at work and I must add that I recently had asked the universe if I had a soulmate because the woman I was with says all the time that we are soulmates but I don't feel it because she has cheated on me and more then likely more then once and has lied several times to my face so I felt that if their is a soulmate for everyone this can't be mine.
Anyway my partner at work kind of seems as though she jokes around with all the guys there almost like flirting and stuff but she is different a little towards me like she doesn't play and joke around like that with me, she vents to me about all the shitty stuff her husband does to her, she told me that I could drive her vehicle if I want to go get lunch but tells me she hates when her husband drives it and doesn't want him driving it plus she hasn't even had it a month yet, she told me one day that she doesn't know how to flirt with somebody even if she wanted to, but she also says she loves her husband and that she is not the type to cheat on her man and the guy that I thought she was flirting with I guess sent her messages telling her about Nike clothes at Nike store and she was talking back until he sent pics of himself in the clothes and she stopped responding and the next night he sent more pics of himself and she didn't respond because she doesn't like him like that and has a man, but then later a fellow worker that is gay said to her after she said she is on second marriage third times a charm and she said not gonna be a third time and he asked if her marriage was good and she told him not really, she says she has worked with every other person there and that she won't work with anybody else but me, she said she likes all kinds of music but only named rappers off to me and I said I like metal and last few days she been listening to metal or hard rock, she listens to songs that are about being alone, says she likes guy with meat on his bones and I'm not skinny.

I ask this because it seems like all the assholes get the girls and the guys that are nice don't. Do you guys think that assholes (people who are clearly after one thing from the beginning, dont call back, pretty much dont care at all), the nice guys (people who try to be considered the perfect guy in every aspect, overly delivering), or the laid back guy (people who are pretty quiet but pretty fun to be around but sort of nonchalant "chilling personality") have the best chances of attracting women.

As for myself, im laid back. Im considered very funny but i dont really let women know i like them. I just chill with them, have a good time, flirt back a bit if she does first and leave it like that. If it get hot, i reciprocate whatever she does pretty much, but im to myself mostly. I tend to attract women but at a slower pace.

My older brother is the asshole. He starts off hinting at sex and how he likes freaky shit, seems to work wonders lmao. I dont get it.