How do I deal if guys always think im an airhead who looks pretty?

[Anonymous]

Guys at my job think im some airhead and they flirt cause they are attracted to me. Im a nice girl and can't hurt others.

I guess it just sucks realizing im just a walking eye candy to men.

But i am not gonna complain because on one hand yes its a benefit and feels nice but on the other hand yeah its sad when you think crushes like you but they really just think you're attractive and like to flirt for fun or just wanna look or even try to get cheap sex. But they dont like you back and they think you're dumb and not worth a relationship
It is fine if these guys dont wanna date and marry. But the fact they will stare, flirt, get nervous, hit on me etc... It leads me on.

[mark000h]

It's like with everybody else, you're attractive so naturally guys are going to notice. You have to deal with the jerks who just want to jump into bed with you, but there's also nice guys who are looking for a connection. Don't think everyone is the same. Be cautious, but don't think the worst of guys, as not all are looking for a quick f. Continue to be kind and you'll find someone who'll like you for you.

[Js9etbr]

Thank you. I think you might be right.

[mark000h]

@Js9etbr you're welcome. I think that there's always bad people out there, but there's also good ones. ☺

[all_hayl]

Are you there to do your job or to concern yourself with how the guys perceive you?

[lycanthrope3]

Use it to your advantage

[Wise4myage]

Prove them wrong.

[LegendaryIcon]

Blonde?