Why guys think I'm ugly?

[blackbabydoll]

Guys don't say it to my face but I can tell by their actions that they think I'm ugly. The reason I say this because they look at me then they look away if its a cute guy. Also guys are not into dark skin females so I don't know I'm nice I dress nice I don't smell but whatever guys don't approach me only bums in the street.

[lovecraze]

Hey hi fi girl.. some people act that way to me too.. or at least they used too.. that was when I was really really really badly obese, but now as I'm not so much.. its a bit ok.. Ill tell you what. I think that haircut doesn't suit your face. DONT YOU EVER SAY YOU ARE UGLY.. .noone on this earth is ugly.. everyone has at least one feature that is beautiful and people can envy.. for example, I have problem skin, I would be jealous of you because you look like you dont.. well not jealous in a bad way.. like I would be like I wish I had skin like yours... and it doesn't matter if its dark as long as its not problem-full right? Come on.. have confidence.. that's the main reason people act like you're ugly.. if you think you yourself are ugly, ofcourse others are going to think so too! don't you think?

[pr3ttybr0wn]

i don't think your ugly but you look a little plain jane from your profile pic. add a little makeup, glam it up a little and dress trendy. guys pay more attention to girls who are more girlie and look done up, especially black men. also act more confident. guys don't like some mousy ass girl that keeps her head down all the time. pretend that your sexy in your mind and you will project sexiness to others and be seen as attractive. its almost like you expect men to find you ugly and then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy

[simplythebest]

HUN your not ugly! STOP doing this to yourself! your beauctful you need to believe that! practice on your selfesteeem. please read books on how to build you confidence maybe even start analysing your past because that is a huge reason why you think the way you do.

my prayers are with you xxxx

[simplythebest]

also its not about what other people think focus on yourself not others YOU DO NOT NEED OTHERS TO VALIDATE YOURSELF! UR WORTH IT SWEETY PLEASE TRY TO BELIEVE IT YOURSELF. I once felt like u, but I surprised myself cos once I started to get confident a lot guys came out and started to say how cute they thought I was. howvere that's besides the point my point is that have the right attitude and everything would fall into place! GOODLUCK :)

[john5246]

Hi, I saw your profile pic and yes you are a bit ugly, I"m being honest here, if I saw you I would look away too. I mean this in the nicest way and I'm just trying to be honest and not sugar coat it. I don't know if you wanted to hear the truth or not. But it's not that bad, I wouldn't say you're hideous or anything. Just be yourself and don't worry you'll find someone.

[blackbabydoll]

what would make you look awawy what's ugly about my face thanks for being honest

[john5246]

@ OP

Nothing specific it's just the whole face, it's not THAT bad though, I've seen some really hideous people, but hey that's just me, I bet you there is someone out there that likes you the way you are, and when you find him you should marry him

[john5246]

The pic you just put up is better, the other one was really bad, so it's hard to say from pics, so cancel what I said earlier, if that's what you look like you're okay

[Chuck2007]

You could of kelp that to yourself

[kriskiss]

no your not ugly at all. nice eyes and lips. sin color and shade is irrelevant. I like dark girls but never dated one.

u just need to work on your confidence and stuff. try dating outside your race if black guys ain't into u.

[blackbabydoll]

thanks for your comments

[tc1125]

probably just look away because they are shy...which would imply they do actually like you.

I think you are being overly self concious for no reason.

[nubianqueensc]

i understand where you are coming from...its hard for a black girl out here

people just don't understand that or they just don't care

[nanotsu]

Black girls turn me on... You look cute I'd definitely approach you if I got the chance ;)

[Snar87]

You're not the best picture taker (neither am I) but you're not ugly. It's probably because they are shy.

[Annabanana87]

You are adorable. Have more confidence! :-) Don't listen to these people saying you don't look good when they don't even have a picture up themselves.

[blackbabydoll]

y thank you but most guys think I'm ugly

[Anonymous]

Don't blame the fact that your not good looking on the fact that your black.

[Opinion Owner]

not that your not good looking, but people in general should stop saying things like that.

[blackbabydoll]

sorry if I came off wrong I'm not trying to say just because I'm black that I am ugly I was just saying that I'm ugly period.

[Opinion Owner]

There is no need for you to apologize, realize your not ugly your just average. I'm sure I probably offended you, sorry. The problem is with the many black women on this site blaming the fact that they can't get men on the color of their skin. It's a fallacy that's now become an endless cycle, instead of people saying I'm black and I'm unattractive their saying I'm unattractive because I'm black. That is an insult to the beautiful/attractive/not ugly black women out there.

[Cmckain12]

I'm so sick of crying bc guys and girls call me ugly I have my moments and I wished I had someone who likes me for me even if they don't I'm not gonna change what do I do I'm so sick of crying😭

[Anonymous]

please don't think like that, because you're def NOT UGLY!

just smile more, but to me you look very cute

[nickijordan2009]

because they are stupid :)