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So, I've known this guy since I was 11, and he was 17, but we were never friends. Now I'm 13, and he's 19, but he never knew how old I was. On Saturday, he told me that he had a crush on me, and thought that I was 'the one', and was going to ask me to be his girlfriend, but then he asked my older brother how old I was, and when he found out my age, he decided that he didn't like me anymore. The way he said it told me that he was lying, I felt like he still had feelings for me, because I certainly have feelings for him, but our relationship would be illegal. Now he says that he likes my 'cousin' who's eighteen, but she wants nothing to do with him. He said that he wants to settle down with her, but she keeps rejecting him. It hurts, how inconsiderate he was. So I wanted to know what you guys would think, should I just forget about him, although I'm moving out in three years, and we might have a chance, should we just keep our relationship a secret (if we have one), or should we just wait until there won't be any trouble. I'm scared that we won't be able to wait that long though. It's not like he's going anywhere because he decided out of college because of financial issues, and I'm still in school for another four years. We would have one year of freedom (I'm applying for emancipation when I turn 16), until I have to move up north for college. I always planned on being single and staying in a dorm room at my college, but now that we might be together in the future, I have to put that in the center, and make decisions based off of that. Do you think that this is too complicated, or will the patience and the efforts pay off in the end?

So my boyfriends sister for whatever reason doesn't like me we can't even be civil with each other I mean I say hi to her but she acts like I'm not even there. I help baby sit her daughter when everyone is working and needs to be picked from school and I get no credit for it at all but her brother does and he isn't even there. I don't know if she's just really jealous because they were so close before I dated her brother and now has to attack me because of that or try destroy our relationship or she really has some issues she needs to get over?
Any advice?

Marshall is 15 years old. He works at a fast food restaurant and at home he cooks, cleans, and takes care of his brother and sister. Marshall feels really sad and scared most of the time. He got so angry that he hit his 5 year old sister, he grabbed her, pushed her, and locked her in the closet. He screamed at his siblings and sometimes he wishes he never had siblings. He feels rage towards his two year old brother and at some point, hit him dragged, and pulled him into his room because he tried to run away from home. Marshall saw a belt and had strong urges to hit him with it repeatedly, but instead Marshall left and took a long walk. He came back, made the bed, bathed and dressed his siblings for bed with a smile on his face. He told them I love you guys and left the room. Does Marshall have anger issues?

I have a lot of history with this one guy, but we haven't very much I common other than that. All my friends are pressuring me to date him because he really likes me. This leads me to be kinda flirty. The only issue, I have a way larger crush on his brother.

I don't hang out with his bro very much except for parties where he usually watches out for me. He's really kind and sometimes I am too nervous to talk to him but other times it's so easy because we just understand each other. He is super athletic and attractive and every girl in my school likes him but he doesn't seem to be into anyone.

I'm starting to think he's irritated by me because even when he's online he almost never reads my Facebook messages. Despite this HE GAVE ME his phone number to text him in town when he sometimes does have service. Heck randomly today he asked if we could hang out one-on-one so idek.

I also have this friend who is high maintenance who also likes him. She called dibs but later explained it doesn't mean anything. She was there and demanded he give her his phone number too. He always gave her more attention but that probably makes sense given her personality.

So am I in the wrong? Should I date the younger brother because of history and he's obviously infatuated with me? Should I chase the older brother because I like him A LOT? Maybe I should stay away from both of them so that I don't hurt their friendship?