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I'm just curious to see what other peoples thoughts are. I spend quite a lot of time with this guy as not only is he my bf's friend, but I'm also good friends with his girlfriend.
First of all he's always really friendly and he stares at me a lot, he always makes sure I know he's there and asks me how I am, anything i ask him to do he will reply with 'of course I can' I get the feeling from how he says it he would do anything I ask him. He rubbed my head the other day in a joking way and gave me a complement about how I spoil everyone. He always try's to sit near me - one example is I was on a coach with him and he moved from where he was sat with his girlfriend and sat opposite me. The other day the 4 of us were having dinner and me and his girlfriend were going home then going on a night out afterwards, and instead of me going home first he insisted I go back to there's while it was time to go out and he sat in the room with us for a while talking, then his girlfriend jpkingly said she didn't feel like going out, and he said well I am if your not, then after we went out I noticeled he'd gone on my facebook profile and liked some of my posts from days ago like to say he had purposely gone on my page to have a nosy.
I don't know if I'm reading too much into it, I love my boyfriend I wouldn't hurt him however I am fond of the guy and I feel really sorry for him as his girlfriend doesn't treat him good and they've both cheated on each other in the past and I know his girlfriend still does as she's told me.

So here's the Boyfriend;
nice, caring, a yes-man, spoils his girlfriend laid back and making it good in life atm.
a handy man, has every tool for the job
loves the outdoors and adventure
lives the happy go lucky lifestyle

The girlfriend:
artsy, musical and crafty
loves making others laugh, like a laid-back class clown
sometimes dramatic about her problems in life
adventure and outdoors loving too
a worry-wart about life hang-ups and obstacles

The situation:
boyfriend has been in a relationship with this girl for 2 years, loves the hell out of her and spoils her with love. he moved away in the last year so it's hard on them to have a long distance relationship for a year. He wants girlfriend to come move in with him, he's really excited about it and so is she.

girlfriend has been preparing to move for the last 2 months but everything that can go wrong has, and she's an emotional wreck because of it, she tells all of her worries to boyfriend. It's to the point where it should be annoying to boyfriend but he isn't showing it. (prolly doesn't want to hurt her feelings)

girlfriend has a tendancy to put herself down and has no self esteem/ confidence.
girlfriend realised that now she only looks like a whiny bitch to him and is afraid that boyfriend will get tired of her shit and move on. girlfriend loves him so hard and is mortified that He'll call off the move and dump her ass. She won't talk to him tomorrow so he won't have to listen to her whining again.

Should boyfriend dump her ass? How can girlfriend fix this? She told me she's been apologising profusely since last night and thinks she just looks like one of his ex's now, which he always hated because they were crazy and emotional.

What is boyfriend gonna do? help me calm her ass down and fix it please