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Years ago, I developed feelings for a friend. I let the romanticised thoughts of us having a relationship together build in my head to a point of obsession and eventually couldn't take it anymore. I told her my feelings; if only to get it off my chest.

She didn't feel the same but asked if we could still be friends. I agreed, though I was a little hurt at first and I fell into a depressive stint. Being rejected got me thinking: "I look for qualities I in a woman, but what can I possibly offer them?" At the time, I would have described myself as: depressed, tubby and no self esteem/ self confidence.

I joined a gym and started dieting. Lost a lot of weight and while I don't mean to brag, I finally feel confident due to my newly formed attractive body (less flab, more abs). I'm also a hell of a lot more motivated and out going than I once was. As for my friend, we would sometimes talk over the next couple of years; but only a few times. Nothing bad; we just didn't end up talking that much.

We recently started talking again and I noticed she seemed different around me than before. Eventually, she told me that she'd developed feelings for the "new me". (my words, not hers) and asked if I still felt the same? I told her I needed to think about it because... well... I'm not sure it's a good idea to date her...

On the one hand, I still have feelings for her and it would be a dream come true... But on the other hand, I spent years telling myself not to feed this obsession for her and to move on with my life; it was unhealthy and damaged our friendship. I've changed so much ( I think for the better) since I confided my feelings in her that I find myself asking if she's even really in love with me or my new sexy body and newly found confidence. Then again, isn't that why I made these changes: to seem more attractive to the opposite sex?

Do I give into my urges and have a relationship with her? Or do I continue to tell myself there's nothing there and we should both move on?

Tasha Maile is a vlogger from San Diego who is a huge advocate of natural and homeopathic remedies. Her YouTube channel which is under ‘Spiritual Tasha Mama’ showcases videos of her embracing a vegan diet, breastfeeding her three boys and now she has also confessed to having sex with her husband while breastfeeding her baby. In the video, the now mother of three admits that she thinks it is okay to have sex while breastfeeding.

She said: ‘the baby is not judging you and thinking ‘my mum and dad are having sex.’’’

And many people are divided about this controversial opinion.

Tasha went on to say: ‘I just like to share my life with others. Being an adult about the conversation: the baby was sleeping while breastfeeding and again, being an adult, I think we all like sex. It’s totally fine.’
It was during an interview on a UK show known as ‘This Morning’ where Tasha defended her views.

‘Even if the baby is awake and off to the side … If the baby is OK, they’re not judging you. It’s not about being right or wrong. If you’re having sex in front of your children and it feels right then it feels right.’
And further controversy was sparked after a video emerged of her breastfeeding her three and five-year-old sons.


A viewer commented: ‘’I find this video very disturbing. She wants viewers to believe this is a natural mother and child bonding while breastfeeding.’


She continued: ‘breastfeeding is a natural, beautiful extension of the mother and child bonding. However, this woman’s exhibitionism certainly takes away from the wonderful bonding between mother and child.’
And despite the mounting criticism against Tasha, she still has many supporters. Madeleine Ellisman wrote: ‘that’s what I’ve always told my kids. Cows milk IS for calves and breastmilk is for humans! And good for her for nursing her kids till she and they are ready to wean. Her kids will be super healthy as will she.’

I have come to accept my balding. It's in my family, I can delay it but never really prevent it, my hair doesn't like my own hormone. Besides I've had it sort off rough with severe stress, depression and anxiety due to things in my life from the age of 14-21. Also had impact on my diet and daily habits, so at 23 it was gone.

It won't come back unless I spend insane amounts of money, personal time and energy, refrain from a lot of good and fun stuff, which is f*** that. I'm at a point where I'm considering permanent hair removal with laser, just to be free of the shaving, seems like the most reasonable. Microscalp pigmentation doesn't seem worth it.

In the past some girls would rate me 6+/10 with hair. However as bald at the age of 25, it's obviously not like that anymore. Girls started wondering and questioning, why this and that superficial blabla. (Seriously some so dull about it, they don't even want to comprehend science). Worst is the god damn double morale girls, you know the same ones whining about guys only wanting great bodys.
- It's all fair however, I respect honesty if you just prefer a guy with hair, yada lets move on.

I won't be able to intrigue and marry any girl, that's fine. From the signals I've been picking up, asking a few gals, I'd say 5/10 at most, depending on the type of gal. Sometimes I wear a cap, but mostly I feel like just shaving it off and rocking the look. Working on other qualities such as charisma and humor. Grass doesn't grow on a busy street. I'm afraid of lice. I'm selling it for a lucrative price etc. Other superficial plusses such as thick beard stubble and a great body, which is improving everyday. Intelligence and dominance I've noticed some girls see in me, that's great.

You can be harsh even humorous, I'll survive. But please be honest how do I look and
would you date a bald guy, why, why not?
The big picture question for women in general. Why is it some rate men from something to nothing just because of hair genes?

Surprisingly it was set by a woman.


"In February 1995, working in conjunction with nutritionists at the University of Michigan, Ann Arbor, I adopted a super fiber-rich diet which allowed me to successfully produce a single extruded excrement the exact length of my colon: 26 feet. I documented the extrusion at the Cranbrook-Kingswood High School Bowling Alley, Bloomfield Hills, MI, which offered a length of floor suitable for the process and measuring the results. The cathartic diet was supplemented by a high intake of Metamucil fiber substance. The weeklong endurance prior to the event was ensured by the employment of a plug specifically designed to curtail any premature excretions."

I'm just wondering since it seems like only a few African countries and Latin America (region) has this reputation of having the thickest/curviest women in the world (especially Brazil) due to their highly diverse racial and cultural mixture (genetics and all sorts of different cultural diets).

I wonder if there's a certain European country that has a fairly noticeable amount of Thick/Curvy women and by Thick/Curvy, I absolutely do NOT mean fat, overweight or obese. I mean thick/curvy as in these pictures from below: