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My nephew is 19 years old off and on nice not very cordial and just ugly towards me his parents towards others SOMETIMES and moody ( won't say good morning unless you speak first ). He sometimes can be selfish and stingy which irks me and others too.
His personality is KNOWN to people who know him including his girfriend and friends.

I found out because she and I work in the same group and have gotten close as we have a lot in common. She eventually got to a point to where she would talk about her relationship with my nephew ( which most are about his ways sometimes as mentioned above ) .

She admitted to me that she has become attracted to this othe boy (Blake) who lives in my apart ment complex. I like Blake a lot he's charming upbeat and gentlemenly and respectful and his well liked by A LOT of people. I found myself preferring his company over my nephew sometimes

To be honest I feel awful for not getting angry at her for admitting this to me about liking someone else and cheating.

She begged me not to tell because of his temper.
I've been knowing about it 4 four months now.
When I think of the way my nephew can be sometimes it makes me continue to not tell him.

Though I see my nephew often when I visit my sister ( who dosent know by the way ) and talk with him because I care for him to a degree ,
he's definetley not one of my favorite nephews either. I dont HATE him though lol. I love him but his attitude as a person sometimes can make u avoid him. He has good points too but his bad points get in the way.

I mean realistically I should but like I said since were not that close Im not really inclined to jump over a fence to inform him but at the same time itll look bad on my part as he's a relative.

I like his Blakes personality a lot better and if my nephew was screwing his girfriend Id prolly woulda told Blake QUICKER 😕😕😕😕
Im not trying to pick outsiders o

So my boyfriend just got a new job that pays well so he will be able to afford a place of his own (he still lives at home with his parents.) He has made comments about getting his own place before, and doesn't really seem to include me in these plans. I find it odd. The job is expected to last about 4 years, which he said he will probably either live with his parents during this time or get his own place. FOUR YEARS. This means he does not intend to live with me at all in the future? He knows I dont want to live together without being married, and this makes it seem like he doesn't want to live with me OR marry me. But he always says he loves me, misses me, etc. I dont know. I think its weird. Help.