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I was talking to a guy for a few weeks that seemed to be good news. Everything was going well and we had our second date over a week ago. He attempted to kiss me and I didn’t want to kiss him back. Before you all call me a bitch, yes, I still continued to talk to him at the time even though I had a feeling there were underlying issues with my sex drive. I feel as if I’m “asexual”. I was attracted to him. I see men all the time that are attractive. But I cannot bring myself to be intimate with one. This presented an issue in my last short term relationship and a guy I spoke to a few years back.

I had the guy I was speaking to most recently spend a decent amount of money on our date. It was at a location with several tourist attractions. He attempted to make a move at the first one and then we left after. He seemed angry that I let him go forward in having him pay for us to complete all these events if I knew there was a lack of connection to begin with. I told him that instead of the fact that I just have intimacy issues. It really wasn’t him that was the issue. I feel it is me and I told him that too.

I apologized a few days ago over Snapchat and he accepted it. Not upset or anything. However, I told him that I liked talking to him before everything happened and we should continue being friends. However, he mentioned he would rather not speak to me because we are not on the same page of what we want. I mean yes, romantically it wouldn’t work out but you don’t even want to consider friendship? Lol okayyy