I've been seeing a lot of questions asking if you'd date someone you weren't physically attracted to and the people who said no would be crucified.
Here is why that is wrong.
So there's no such thing as a perfect person. If there is or it seems that way, there's probably a catch to it. As the old saying goes, if it's too good to be true, it is.
In my case, I dated a girl who seemed really cool at first, was a great conversationalist, had a lot in common with me, mostly music tastes, horror movies, political views, etc and she was knockout gorgeous. Not putting her on a pedestal, but when I told friends and my brothers about her, they'd say dude that's your dream girl, you gonna marry her? Turns out she just got out of a 5 year relationship. Like her ex moved out the week of our first date and she ended up being a narcissist and a sociopath and ended up playing me by inviting me to her place with a condom wrapper in her bed from another guy. To add insult to injury, she made it seem like it was my fault by blocking me on social media and turning her friends against me. So there ya go, if it's too good to be true, it is.
Anyways, dating is not easy. Finding the right person isn't always easy. There are some people who are physically attractive but have a horrible or just flat out bland personality then there are those who are great people, but are not the least bit physically attractive. Keep in mind, attraction is all subjective. What may be attractive to one, may not be to another. Everyone's got preferences.
Point being is, I've dated a lot and it seems like finding a match is tough. Either the girl would be not attractive(or a catfish) but have some things in common and be a good person. And then there's been times where the girl was cute and was either really boring with no common interests (and I mean none).
A girl doesn't have to be knockout gorgeous but she's gotta be at least somewhat attractive or else the sex and intimacy will be awkward. A girl also doesn't have to be exactly like me in terms of common interests and other things, but at least have some things in common or at least be open to trying new things and be able to hold a conversation or else talking and communication will be awkward. There's also been times where the girl would be cute but then also have lots of issues. That shit will drain you and is toxic.