What simple personality traits make you feel intensely attracted to someone?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am really attracted to them being professional and really good at something. It causes my respect and also a sexual attraction…

What impressed me about my first boyfriend is that he was really charismatic and extremely ambitious and persuasive and I always saw his potential for something great and believed in him. He later proved to be true.

In my second boyfriend - I found it very sexy as he texted me every time right after he did biopsies and helped people. I found it so impressive that he could be so good at something so serious in terms of life and death. Yet be so sweet and simple with me.

And as for my Monday’s date, I had to say no to two others to go and see him, and I was wondering why I felt inclined to him and I think it’s because he is serious and seems to be so smart. He has to fly all around Asia almost every other week, because in the industry he’s in - they need him to solve the problem and can’t do without him. I find that very attractive that he is so needed. Trying not to get impressed too early though :) I am prone to that.

Attraction only has proved not to be so important, so I hope that there will be compatibility too. So I’m going to give my Monday evening to him. My Monday is so in demand because that’s my only free evening whole week. I am really busy for Shanghai Expo this week.

[7Phoenix7]

I wouldn’t call it simple… but I love when a man has emotional intelligence. It’s extremely attractive to me. Someone who can understand his own emotions… communicate openly… and also be aware of how his words and actions affect other people. That kind of self-awareness and maturity stands out more to me than almost anything else 😌

you are spending your Monday with your ex? The second boyfriend you told me about?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Ah nope, we’ve been in no contact for 3 months.

I am going to meet this German guy who works here, and he is very family oriented, so let’s see how it goes.

[7Phoenix7]

Oh okay 👌. Let me know how it goes?

[Beckybooboo]

When a man has a passion for something simple, that they can actually make it interesting! My husband has a passion for song writing and almost every song I like, he knows the story behind it! What inspired the writer, how long they took to write it and so on. I never thought about the stories behind songs I've liked but he made it so interesting and made me appreciate the talent these people have! Some songs are written during happy times, some are written from just a quick memory of someone the writer met 10 years earlier and some are written from heartache. I've told the stories behind a few songs on here.

That's also what makes a good teacher. If they're passionate about what they teach, the students will feel passionate! I had a history teacher like that

[ohsheeT]

Being kind of shy being low voice quiet kind of can speak with her eyes or touch is smart and confident thinks of other people and smiles I mean there's a lot more to it but when all the above is in one place you can just feel that energy all around you

[Levin]

Emotional intelligence. And someone who takes care of themselves, spiritually, morally, physically, and emotionally!

I completely echo what mademoiselle @7Phoenix7 says.

Most people lack self awareness and how their words impact upon people.

[7Phoenix7]

Look at you Levin, dropping wisdom.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode attraction, red flags, and real compatibility, with a little flirt and a lot of honesty 😏

You’re clearly turned on by competence, status, and emotional duality: powerful in the world, soft with you. That’s a very feminine-core attraction pattern, nothing wrong with it.

Just watch out for lovebombing and ego-worship. Choose the man who’s not only impressive, but consistent, kind, and emotionally available when the Shanghai Expo buzz is gone.

[REDBRA36c]

First, her overall modest beautiful A+ appearance and how she carries herself. Then whether she’s a true genuine Biblical Christian presenting the fruit of the Spirit.
Then her willingness to assist and participate in even the smallest things and extends to me. I don’t know at this time if I could pinpoint any specific personal trait, but basically that she’s fun to be around and doesn’t laugh at some of my potentially different interests. She’s ok with puns and dry humor or jokes. Maybe, she just has traditionally stereotypical feminine personality character traits with a little or so tomboy elements mixed it.

[MrChinaski]

Someone who is genuine and is working to be a better person.

[MrChinaski]

With a fun, devilish streak.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You’re describing me? :)

[MrChinaski]

@lafemmefatale_1 So, what are you doing Friday night?

[exitseven]

The same thing my father told me. When you start dating a girl check out her teeth. If she has bed teeth she probably does not take very good care of herself. If she does not take good care of herself she will probably not take good care of you either.

[queenofcardio]

I'm instantly attracted to ambitious and disciplined people. I'm goal oriented too and I like challenging myself so it's hot. Witty people are also a big turn on for me.

I love a good sarcastic remark.

[MontBlanc]

For me, it’s often simple things, kindness, a genuine sense of humor, and the way someone makes others feel comfortable.

Those small personality traits can make someone incredibly magnetic without them even trying.

[Nikki1989]

I have a deep appreciation for those who possess true musical talent. By that I mean a real musician, not someone pressing a preset on a computer program.

[Jcbvirgo]

A few of the reasons I'm looking for engagement rings for my girlfriend is because she is very compassionate, ambitious, open minded and is not afraid to voice her opinion. She also is someone I can open up to and not have to always have to be stoic with.

[msc545]

That's very idealistic writing unit you've done there. Unfortunately, the truth lies elsewhere. Let's just say that the truth is tall. Rich and good looking. If one of those things is missing, you're going to have nothing to do with it.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

If height and money were the deciding factors, my decision for Monday would likely look very different.

You might be surprised how attractive competence and passion can be.

[msc545]

Well, at least where I live, I am surprised at how unattractive competence and passion are and how attractive money is.

[KimmySchmit]

Tall, handsome, muscular/athletic, well dressed

[ElenaSeluna]

Confidence with a nice personality is the perfect combination..

[UrLoveMocha]

Humility is the most beautiful thing that you could ever have in my opinion.

[Agape93]

Vulnerability. Makes me wanna sink my teeth into them

[Likes2drive]

Usually when they show they care and interested in what I do, someone caring and nurturing and is motivating

[Anonymous]

If I don't like her appearance - nothing.

If I like her appearance - Self-confidence, dominant and assertive personality, I like girls who take initiative.

[Xoirwinkan]

A laughing playfulness, like she is a scampering woodland elf I must capture and make mine.

[fish5505_87]

Good Question, I never really think about it, until it happens!

[Jerre]

Her personality, sense of humor and being herself

[Anonymous]

Humble lady 😁 clean, cool and calm and good looking and the whole package

[MidnightRivers]

Confidence, assertiveness and kindness

[RavVid]

Genuinely feminine for me.

[KostasKouvalis]

Poltically incorrect

[Shrimpenjoyer]

It's rather hard to pinpoint and describe.

[thegreenyogi]

Great humour.

[Anonymous]

Your personality is attractive babe 🥹

[loveslongnails]

Kindness

[Jonettacali]

Confidence