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When this question is posed, the majority of women who support abortion rights will respond with something like "men already have a choice... they can choose not to have sex". Well the obvious fact is that women have that exact same choice, but when they make a mistake and get pregnant they can choose abortion to opt out of being a parent. And that is exactly why the vast majority of abortions happen.

https://www. verywellhealth. com/reasons-for-abortion-906589

The whole "it's my body, my choice" thing seems more like an excuse to allow women to control everything related to reproduction when you consider why women actually choose to have abortions. They are choosing not to be a parent for exactly the same reasons why men would like to choose not to be a parent when they made exactly the same mistake.

There would of course have to be some strict requirements if we made "paper abortions" legal. A man would have to let the pregnant woman know of his choice early enough in the pregnancy that she can make an informed choice about whether she wants to abort or continue with the pregnancy knowing she will be a single mother without financial support from the father. The woman would need to notify the man of the pregnancy early enough to make that choice in time to meet the requirement. If she doesn't, she forfeits her right to child support. The man would have to give up the right to be a part of the child's life.

So, if women can choose to have an abortion simply because they made a mistake and are not ready or willing to become a parent, shouldn't men have a similar option? It seems hypocritical to argue otherwise.

My parents were strict and overprotective, never listened to a thing I wanted.
For example, they didn't let me watch R-rated movies until I was actually 17, because they're asshole boomers who were too strict. I have no respect for them.
They didn't let me play football because "my precious little head could get hurt".
They forced me to get an HPV vaccine even though it is NOT LEGALLY MANDATED, and even though I'm not a manwhore, I'm still a virgin by choice and don't ever want that to change. They ignored me, and forced me to get it anyone.
They searched my phone when I got in trouble at school, disregarding my privacy.
And a million other things like that.
It wasn't really any one incident that made me hate them, it was death by a thousand cuts, their was no straw that broke the camel's back, just years and years of accumulated resentment and bitterness
My ideal arrangement with regard to them would be complete separation. They could only call me to give me news on one of my grandparent's health or one of their dog's health. No contact on birthdays, holidays, Mother's/Father's Day.
I've even considered changing my surname so I don't carry theirs, but I decided not to, since my surname isn't just my father, it's also generations of ancestors who were good people, and it's not their fault my parents screwed up raising me.
I've considered getting plastic surgery so I don't look like my parents, but it's too expensive and I have a general distrust of medical "care".