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So about two months ago I met a 32 year old guy at a friend's dinner party. We talked online and on the phone quite often. We went on three dates. Then one day he invited me to his home for dinner. He told me that none of the women in his family are fit to be mothers. He ranted about how his sister abondoned her son to travel and whore around, how his mother used to leave the children to go out and party... he said so many horrible things. Right in front of his nephew who he raises! Then he said he expected everyone in his family to do what he says because he knows better. It was all a turn-off for me so I dropped him. I became distant and cool. When he asked why, I told him truthfully. He said I don't like honesty and openness. That I know nothing about his family. I was sitting there thinking it is none of my business what happened with his family. I have only been seeing him for a short time. What he did seemed incredibly disloyal and judgmental. What is to prevent him from trying to control me? I don't need someone who will judge me in my life. I want a lover not a father. Did I over react? Was I wrong to stop seeing him?