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Ultimate guide on how not to care


Not caring is the superman mode of emotional control. Little in terms of individual’s opinions about you affects you. You are not bogged down by the trivial things in life i.e., the things that are superficial and won’t add to your happiness in life. “ the I don`t give a damn attitude”


Ultimate guide on how not to care



Lets take a look at two guys as an example:


Guy A does everything with the sole intention to try to impress people. He drives an expensive car to look cool, wears expensive clothes to be classy, buys people drinks to look generous, smokes to look cool, tells stories about all his cool (and fake) adventures.


Guy B doesn't care much what people think about him. He has his own mission and his own likes and dislikes. If he doesn’t like something he won’t do it or he will simply say no.


He is one of those guys who may just show up at a black tie event in shorts and sandals because he was in the area and wanted to see his friends.


He will go and dance on an empty dancefloor in a busy club because his favorite song is on and he doesn’t want to wait for others to start dancing before he can have fun.


He will be the first one to open his mouth when something isn’t right while other people just wait in line and don’t say anything.


Ultimate guide on how not to care


While guy A may initially seem cool, he is fake. Nothing about him is real. Once people discover this about him, they will likely lose respect for him very quickly and all his efforts of trying to impress people actually lead to people disliking him. There is nothing likable about people who are deceptive and unauthentic.


Guy B is laid back and care free sure some pathetic people will be talking about him how audacious he is. And its not like he is going to lose sleep over them, but why should he take them in consideration and go out of the way to impress them, it won`t make a positive impact in his life.


Guy B will have the most enjoyable life because he does the things that makes him happy screw the rest if it offends them.


Ultimate guide on how not to care


How to go about this...


You would have to make adjustments to your life. One of the most important I would think is:


1) Analyze the things in your life that truly matter. Bottom line, for me, is at the end of the day, the things that matter most are my faith, family, and a healthy body that allows me to live the life I want. As long as I have those things, then nothing else matters.


2) Avoid negativity, if your co-workers have a knack for starting drama, avoid them. If your circle of friends have a tendency to tear you down, or hold you back, then separate yourself and look elsewhere. (Avoid the scum that troll G@G lol) no need to deactivate and deprive yourself of a good source of advice.


3) Haters will be haters it’s a fact of life don't let them get under your skin.


Ultimate guide on how not to care


Things not to do


If you are going for a job interview don’t come dressed in gym clothes
Or drive hazardless because its fun, apply common sense after all you want to benefit yourself not the opposite.


REMEMBER HAPPINESS IS YOUR MOST VALUABLE RESOURCE


Protect it like a mother Bear protects her young


Ultimate guide on how not to care



Take home message


Don’t conform to societies standards instead to your own ideals.

Ultimate guide on how not to care
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