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Okay so here it is girls (and yes guys also). What if you met this really nice guy. This is at a college level meaning you and him are college students. He's very smart and loves to play tennis, skate and has interest in music. He wants to become an engineer, he is a junior in college. He is your best friend. He was there for you through family lost and breakups. He would compliment you and he would care for you. He makes efforts to be with you because well, he's your best friend. He has an amazing personality in which he is very nice to others, cares for you and will help in anyway he could. He is very mature for his age as he is 21. He buys everything when it comes to movies and dinner (Occasionally like birthdays, but not often when you guys hang). You guys are very close and you trust each other when it comes to secrets. When you guys fight, it hurts you that he may leave. And no matter what happens, you will fight for him to stay with you in his life because HE WAS THE FIRST GUY to actually care for your well being. You guys talk everyday and you make sure he is alive and well. But what if one day, he said you both have been doing things such as a couples do (Movies, dinner, gifts, hanging, traveling together) and he asked if you could give him a chance for to date you. Would You? I mean he proves it everyday he cares for you and he has never hurt you before because he thinks you are perfect. He knows it will work out because you both like to handle things soon and very effectively. And not once, did you guys fight or got mad at each other while you guys are friends.

But there is one problem, you aren't attracted to him, but he is everything you want in a relationship. But you just don't find him attractive. WOULD you date him still because the personality is perfect for you?

On a side note, can you all please elaborate on a few things. No matter how great of a guy he is, would you still date him even if that attraction isn't there?

I've been having this problem and it's really messed me up with this girl who's perfect for me (but at least we're kinda speaking right now) and i wanna fix this problem now, for her or any future girl.

I seem to get into fights/cause arguments with girls and I dont know why. Maybe i'm scared to throw myself out there, as i'm 21 and only had 1 gf and i'm ridiculously shy

Here's four RECENT (past couple months) fights I can list off my head

1: I was in a bad mood and texted the girl "hey i wanna talk i feel sad" and she called me. i hit "Reject" and texted her "Can you text me? i dont feel like talking" and she storms off on me ranting stuff like "how childish and selfish, i pick up the phone for you even when i dont feel like talking"

2: I had a VERY good reason to suspect this girl, saying she had to go to the hospital the day before our date, was lieing. I called her out on it and she got extremely infurtiated with me and cursed me out

3: I was talking to this girl on Facebook and said "Listen. i like you and i'd never hurt you i'll be totally open and honest with you about everything, except maybe something like my poop :p" and she goes "wow your mature" and started ranting at me and using other stuff against me to show i'm not mature.

4: i texted this girl "im gonna be honest with you. i think you're perfect, but you seem to nitpick at everything i do and it's annoying. you also claim everything i do is immature when the correct word is "rude". she blew up at me and said "Are you calling me a retard? correcting me like that" and other nasty stuff when all i was saying is my honest opinion in a nice way

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I don't know what i'm doing wrong. maybe its me avoiding neutral talk, so i dont appear to be boring? What do I do and how do i stop this? its happening a lot and I don't know why