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So aha, I have been dating this guy for about 4 months now and we are very committed and I have known him for a long time before we dated. Anyway he is a great guy and so I know he definitely still likes me a lot however I know how guys say they do need space but for me I never get sick of him so seeing him every 2 days would be fine with me aha. So anyway the other day we were talking and he had said he just doesn't want us to with each other 24/7 and so its been about 2.5 days since then and when he said that it made me think hmm maybe I should just chill and not message him much over the next few days or so because I feel someimes as if im the one initiating most ideas to hang out and most contact so I thought I'd back off a bit and let him contact me. Well yesterday we hardly spoke but when we did I was going out to look at Christmas lights so I quickly told him I had to go but id be back soon and he ended up staying 'you hardly talk to me :/' and then 'have fun babe, I'll message u tomorrow x' but the thing is he didn't message me all day anyway so eh? We're supposed to hang out new year but untill then I'm gona back off and let him inititiate conversations and not ask to see him till new years. But I was just wondering what people would think, if im hardly talking to him and not asking to hang out because I don't wana initiate everything, will that make him feel like he shouldn't initiate contact because he feels unwanted even though I always initiate? Will this make him initiate more and feel less crowded and make him miss and appreciate me or have a negative effect? ( by the way I don't want to talk to him just yet, I just was try this first because I don't want to have to force him to want to initiate contact etc, I want him to want to)

If you ended a long term relationship would you let your late SO believe there was someone else?

Let's say the relationship has run its course. Things have gotten hard. You've spent the last year trying to make it work. You've tried relighting the spark, you've tried fun new date ideas, you've tried it all.

You're both emotionally exhausted from trying to fit each other into your lives. You both have gotten busy - too busy to the point where it's not fair on either of you to be together. You don't have the time that a relationship needs. And trying to find the time between work and school and your life has taken its toll on you and the relationship. It's not fair to either of you.

You tell them it's over. They are heartbroken. Because even if the relationship wasn't working completely as it should, they still felt like something would come along and turn it around and it'd be good again.

They accuse you, in their hurt, of having eyes for someone else.

You know this to be false. You deny it at first but they accuse you and start to paint you as the bad guy (or girl).

Do you continue to deny it? Or do you let them think you're the bad person in the hopes that it'll help them heal faster?