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So I spend 4 hours making my boyfriends gift for Valentine's Day, I was so excited to give it to him and see what he had planned for us. Well he didn't plan anything for us, he met up with me for like 30 mins and handed me a card... Mind you we are in our 30s! I understand love isn't about gifts and doing stuff but he also didn't do anything for my birthday or Christmas, would never plan a date (like at all) and if I planned a date I was always paying for it. So today after getting the card, I dumped him.

Was as a I wrong to dump a guy who I always felt like I had to do more for? A guy who I felt like didn't appreciate me and took me for granted?

here are some things I would do for him while we were dating for two and a half years:

-advent calendars with little presents leading up to holidays, big gift on the day of the holiday
-care baskets with his favorite snacks, drinks and candy
-cookie cakes for his sport events/birthday
-handmade cards
-baked/cooked for him
-bought him clothes and food
-christmas/halloween/easter baskets
-gave him picture frames of us
-planned fun dates for us (movies, dinner, holiday themed dates, movie nights, etc.)
-made him a scrapbook with pictures of us
-decorated gingerbread houses, carved pumpkins, went apple picking and ice skating together (my idea always)
-cleaned his room for him

he used to always say he was so lucky to have me and he was never going to find anyone like me and he would refer to me as the "wifey".

I did all this, as well as other thoughtful things, and I ended up getting cheated on and dumped. now he doesn't even want to be a part of each others lives. he says he has no feelings and he has moved on and is into partying and being single.

why did he end up taking me for granted? will he regret this one day when he realizes how special I was and how much I loved him?

My guy friend kept telling me he's buying me perfume for Christmas. This was before I agreed to the idea of getting him a gift in return. He would say it everytime I saw him because I told him I didn't believe him. I got in contact with him an told him I'd be buying him somthing to. An i remained in contact with him over winter break but he never mentioned the gift ever again. I'm starting to think he really didn't get me anything an I'm planning on taking what I got him back to the store. One of my friends says it's rude to take it back. One friend agrees with me. I think it's the logical thing to do I spent a lot of money on buying him stuff from Abercrombie. He saved money by not getting me anything in return. I should get my money back.