Search Results: hurtful words

How to apologize correctly

Before you all start yelling "captain obvious!" just think about it for a moment. How many times have you had an argument with someone, and you feel like their apology afterwards was insanely weak, or just entirely fake?...

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

Has someone broke up/ended things with you, but you can't get over this person and somehow you feel that he is the one?

He just ended a long term relationship 4 months before we met. I was the first girl he met when he decided to start dating again. We get along extremely great, and we both acknowledged a connection and being very happy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it possible to feel like someone is your soulmate, but not want to be with them?

So my boyfriend and I was having a conversation and he told me that his ex said she believed that they were soulmates. I asked him if he felt the same and he got silent. After a few words were exchanged he said that what...

Anonymous

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Society & Politics

How can words be so hurtful?

GGNIRE: As they stand just a collection of letters but... arrange them in a specific order and they can be hurtful and cruel. "In our modern free-spoken society There is a word that we still hold taboo A word with a...

Girl_Scout

Xper 5 Age: 42

Why would he not want to be with a woman his age? Does he see me as some kind of stereotype or fetish?

I went to my boyfriends work event with him, last weekend and I overheard a conversation with him and a client that I thought was a little hurtful. Basically that guy was giving him a hard time about how my boyfriend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I just want to know if this slogan is true or not?

"Sober thoughts are drunken words" The reason why I am asking this is because I had hung out with my ex whom I have been working on things with last night at the bar and the previous night. I don't drink alcohol and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think about kids?

Recently, I was with a group of girls and we were talking about our futures. We talked about what we wanted to do career wise. When it got to me, I said I wanted to go into something I could do part time or full time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, after only three dates what would cause you to end things while being excessively hurtful?

Went on few dates with a guy in just one week, and by the end he told me he liked me which I recepricated but said I was worried, hoping he implied worried of getting hurt. Few days past, no word, he posts on social...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Went on few dates with a guy in just one week, and by the end he told me he liked me which I recepricated but said I was worried, hoping he implied worried of getting hurt. Few days

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Family & Friends

Is This Fair or Over the Top?

So this about my Grandma and my uncles wife. Basically, when my brother and I were kids, Grandma had pretty much full access to us. We'd have a week of our holidays down at her place, when she was in town she would have...

BaileyisDarcy

Editor Age: 28

Having a hard time in your relationship or dating? Look no further for your advice!

So last night my best friend rang me up totally freaking out about her boyfriend, he was apparently acting distant, not messaging her much and she felt like she was loosing him. I can bet any money on it now that most...

Anonymous

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Childhood friend/crush is acting weird?

-He and I have been close friends for six or seven years and our mothers are best friends -He liked me in middle school, but I don't know how he feels now (sophomore in high school) -Ive liked him since middle school but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dr jekyll and Mr. Hyde men, Prince charming turns into prince of being mean and hurtful?

Dr. Jekyll: dated for two months, had sex after the first month. Everything was great, he was perfect, chivalry wasn't dead with him. He was romantic, thoughtful, sweet, a protector, everything. He was never mean or...

heartbrokn38

Xper 4 Age: 48

How to rebuild trust with a guy?

There is a man I'm in love with, and I know he loves me back, but he's afraid to trust because we've had a rocky past. We met up again for the first time in about a year, and I had planned to take it slow, but things got...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I texted my ex the most hurtful things last night while drunk, should I apologize?

Honestly, I meant every word I said. But I would have said it more diplomatically had I been sober. Should I apologize? Should I say anything at all? Or should I just pretend it never happened and never text him again?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

The Problems With Political Incorrectness

Definition of political correctness (PC): the avoidance, often considered as taken to extremes, of forms of expression or action that are perceived to exclude, marginalize, or insult groups of people who are socially...

echoaj

Yoda Age: 30

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How do I accept my mother is mentally ill?

How do I let go of the anger and revenge, I want her to see us do well in life after all she said to us, the hurtful words growing up, the shame, the bullying, the hitting. But I know she is mentally ill and will never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Girls, Should I Write to My First Crush? So many years have passed?

6th grade. I was just a kid with a major crush. She was in the popular crowd, I wasn't. I wrote to her then, expressing my affection. But it went nowhere. She couldn't possibly date me. Not with the pressure of her...

Atlas1015

Xper 4 Age: 47

Break Up & Divorce

Should I apologize for lashing out at my ex after the break up or should I not worry about it?

I haven't texted my ex since we ended things last week, I'm starting to feel bad about the things that I said. Even though he hurt me and said some cruel things I shouldn't have lashed out at him. I was being so patient...

Anonymous

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