Search Results: slowing things down

I've decided to move back to my hometown!

Where did I go? 25 months ago I moved to Bremgarten which is a small town half an hour from the big city I grew up in. It was a spontaneous decision because I found a beautiful house that I could never afford to live in...

Lynx122

Master Age: 36

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Flirting

Is my crush flirting/interested in me?

There is this attractive bus driver who I've been eyeing for some time. For the last couple of years, I'd only see him occasionally... maybe once every 4 months. I noticed then that he'd stare at me when he is on another...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is there attraction or am I reading too much into this?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does this bus driver like me/find me attractive or am I reading too much into it?

Sometimes on the routes I need to take, a really attractive man drives the bus. For the last couple of years, I'd see him occasionally... maybe once every 4 months. I noticed then that he'd stare at me when he is on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Can getting bullied and lack of motivation (no one to guide you) slow down your skills?

I never liked art classes during my childhood nor early teens years; grades 4th to 8th. Those were the years my classmates gave me a hard time. Supposedly, I had little to no visual skills. I sucked in the kitchen too....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Less texting after 1st hangout/date?

I went out with this guy from uni last Sunday that I met online and we pretty much hit it off. I've talked to a lot of guys & he's by far the best. We met after 2 weeks of talking. We wouldn't talk ALL the time, but he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

How fast is too fast?

I met this guy on a dating app and we have really hit it off and after our second date where we found ourselves making out he said he wanted to slow down. I agreed to it but on our third date things escalated again. I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How do I pick between the two?

I found myself in a love triangle. Guy A is not my usual type, but in a way he is what I need. Since he isn’t my type I’m kind of forced to be more communicative. However with that being said, I also kept giving him...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

How can anyone morally trade with China?

I think its very immoral to trade with China the reality is it’s been immoral to trad with China since October first 1949 Nixon should never had opened up China for trade with the U. S but today it’s 100% immoral...

Stoner710

Guru Age: 32

Relationships

How much does momentum matter in a relationship? Would you rather have a clear picture of where the relationship is headed or feel it out?

We know that everyone has busy lives and there should be a balance in every relationship between spending time with someone and being independent. Does it ever get concerning if you notice things have slowed down or are...

SamFromFL

Explorer Age: 27

Other

What's one of the most awkward position you've been in?

Me and my sister was visiting my dad and for some reason his wife decided to ride with him to come get us that day. She started the conversation off by saying I love your hair , Of course I said thanks ( it was already a...

Shhhhhhhhhhh06

Xper 4 Age: 19

Dating

PLEASE HELP: Does this man have a plan for me or is he wasting my time?

I'm 25, and in October I met a wonderful man Mark. I've dated casually after my recent breakup (1yr ago), but as soon as I met Mark and spent time with him it was like my entire world and everything I had gone through...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why are we still lying about what attracts women?

Disclaimer: This message does not apply to all women! Therefore this does not apply to the noble pinks, that actively stand out. You probably know who you are! I am baffled, that people still tell each other sweet lies...

Unit1

Editor Age: 31

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Dating

Is this long distance relationship worth pursuing?

A couple of weeks ago, I met this girl at a virtual speed dating event through my church. There were people from all over the USA on there. I talked to 6 women, but only matched with this 1 Candace. I live in Richmond, VA...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is He Looking for a Reason to Leave, Even if We Haven't Been Dating That Long?

I'm going to admit that what led up to this was my fault. We had gotten quite physical on the first date, and I ended up panicking about possible pregnancy risks (we ended up going back over that night in detail, and how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I have created a scarcity mindset while being in the army (infantry) and this made relationship or dating hard?

Like not being in control of your life, your time. I feel like I need to do this now because I won't have another time. It makes me rush into things instead of slowing it down

Irobot7

Xper 5 Age: 29

Relationships

Always texting first?

So there's a girl I've been talking to since November, we've never met. She told me that she's working three jobs and her dog is pretty much dying and she literally has no free time to do anything, but when things slow...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Entertainment & Arts

What do you think of my poem?

In work, silence fills every corridoor you do not walk. And each empty space I look toward, captures a memory of you. When you're not there, somehow the space feels greater and bigger. The corridors grow longer and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys, I liked a guy but met someone else, what should I do?

So, I liked this guy named Brad that I met at work, he is really nice and we have the same religion and are politically the same. I liked him a lot, but he was married and divorced about five years ago. He said he liked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Would it be incredible rude and mean for him to never contact me again?

I was seeing this guy steadily for a couple months when we had to slow things down a bit because he had this huge exam for law school. He said once it’s over we’ll see each other more like before but until then (the exam...

Anonymous

(30-35)