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I am a feminist activist and I don't want to be a stupid woman that stay with a guy that treated me like piece of shit, disrespect me, don't give me any attention, or even abusive. But I don't get it why a woman stay with a guy that clearly hurt you and keep him cause I think it's so stupid no matter how much you love him. Being a strong woman doesn't mean you have to stay with a guy that treated you like shit. Leave him then you can called yourself a strong woman. Because a woman leaves a man for herself. Or with a guy that take advantage of me, clearly won't ever like me, just want have sex or treated me like I'm his fans just because I told him that I like him first. And I think there's still a lot of women out there that don't find themselves worth it.


Here's the truth guys, being pretty, honest, treating a man good, caring about a man, making an effort for a man is not gonna keep him. You could have the best intentions, the most sincere feelings, you could be a good woman, still not gonna keep a man. Because the only way to keep a man, if that man wants to be kept by you. They don't care how hard you try, you cannot force a man to be with you, you can't beg him, you can't love him enough to make him love you back. A man only fights for what he wants, don't hold onto a man who doesn't wanna held by you. It doesn't mean you gave up, it really means that he gave up on you. And it's YOU who should not waste anymore of your time, know when it's time to let go, know when to walk away and know when it's time for him to be unkept.


Girls, if there's one of you that still not become a strong woman, are you will be a strong woman after read my opinion and advice?

He hates garbage about cheaters, liars and hypocrites. His stance is ''be honest even if it hurts''. He has no respect for his last girlfriend that cheated on him for 4 months. He found out through others and had to surprise her with the evidence to get the truth out of her. He blocked her immediately and ignored her beggings.

My friend however told him last month that she would like an open, casual relationship... that she sometimes feels like dating others for fun while keeping him as her boyfriend. He thanked her for the honesty and has agreed to it. He still considers her a faithful girlfriend; saying that's a lot better than getting cheated on and having your time wasted.

His definition of a faithful, honest person is the one that has enough respect to tell you in your face, doesn't hide things and isn't misleading you. How about you, would you consider my friend a faithful girlfriend?