Do you consider yourself as a strong woman?

[Anonymous]

I am a feminist activist and I don't want to be a stupid woman that stay with a guy that treated me like piece of shit, disrespect me, don't give me any attention, or even abusive. But I don't get it why a woman stay with a guy that clearly hurt you and keep him cause I think it's so stupid no matter how much you love him. Being a strong woman doesn't mean you have to stay with a guy that treated you like shit. Leave him then you can called yourself a strong woman. Because a woman leaves a man for herself. Or with a guy that take advantage of me, clearly won't ever like me, just want have sex or treated me like I'm his fans just because I told him that I like him first. And I think there's still a lot of women out there that don't find themselves worth it.


Here's the truth guys, being pretty, honest, treating a man good, caring about a man, making an effort for a man is not gonna keep him. You could have the best intentions, the most sincere feelings, you could be a good woman, still not gonna keep a man. Because the only way to keep a man, if that man wants to be kept by you. They don't care how hard you try, you cannot force a man to be with you, you can't beg him, you can't love him enough to make him love you back. A man only fights for what he wants, don't hold onto a man who doesn't wanna held by you. It doesn't mean you gave up, it really means that he gave up on you. And it's YOU who should not waste anymore of your time, know when it's time to let go, know when to walk away and know when it's time for him to be unkept.


Girls, if there's one of you that still not become a strong woman, are you will be a strong woman after read my opinion and advice?

Yes

No

Updates

+1 y

Sorry, i forgot to make this question for girls only. I don't need your opinion if you're not a female 🙂

[susie22]

I do consider myself a strong woman, in many different ways. I wouldn't call myself a feminist per se, but I'm in a male dominated field and I feel that I've worked hard to get there, and if a woman wants to work in a profession dominated by men, there's only one thing holding her back, and that's herself. I was raised by parents who told me I could do anything if I put in the effort, and I live by that.

I'm completely honest and loyal to a fault, and I expect and deserve nothing less from my man, and that's mostly been the case, but any guy who has broken my trust or lied to me, is done. The same thing goes for the physical part, put your hand on me in anger, and you will regret it. I agree with the idea of not being with a man who doesn't want to totally be with me and ONLY me, I won't stand for that, I think I deserve much better. Fortunately right now I think I have found "that guy", so all is good.

[Anonymous]

Not surprised that a feminist who believes she is “strong and independent” doesn’t want to hear opinions from men. hahaha

[Anonymous]

You really just sound butt hurt, and that's why women become angry feminists. You're only hurting yourself in the end.

[blondfrog]

Yes I am a strong independent woman who don't need no man.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

No, because I am a man