Guys, do you judge bad a woman who likes a lot a guy but also is interested in her self-growth and career? Do you think it's egoistic?
+1 yI like strong women very much as well as educated and passionate ones. The way I always saw it is that even if I'm the metaphorical captain of the ship in my household, my wife should at least be my first officer and most trusted advisor. She is also the one who will be captain when I am away, incapacitated, or dead, so it was always important to me that a woman is self-sufficient and has leadership qualities of her own.
So a woman who is interested in self-growth and career is a pro to me, not a con, and I married one who's also very mentally and physically strong. That said, the one thing I was incompatible with are dominant women who will compete with me over leadership. That messes me up too much. I value the leadership qualities in my wife but my wife still trusts me to make executive decisions that impact us both. In exchange, I listen to her ideas and will sometimes even pick her idea if I think it's the best one.
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Women who focus on themselves; aren't worried in the contexts of comparisons.
Women who try their best and endure their fair share or struggles. Women who can motivate themselves.
Women who enhance their lives to sustainability or progress and make the world a better place.
Who they are to their families friends coworkers and on and on is not what makes them a strong woman.
A strong mother is also a strong woman. She has to train or as least support her kids enough to grasp their own independence and not compare themselves either. Kids that can also endure struggles and try their best more often than not.
That’s a strong woman to me. I also think she’s even stronger if she’s good hearted with all of these things. A smart woman is a strong woman because that intelligence will aid her. My mom was very quick witted and kind. Very balanced and persevering. I consider myself strong and I’m also intelligent enough and willing as well as kind. I’m not at my fullest capacity but I’m on that path. Other than this, nothing else. The rest is just misc./ accessories/ and preferences.00 Reply
+1 yI made a career during my marriage, lol
It depends on your man. If he will be free of insecurities (that you can have a better career than he has), and support you, it wouldn't be a problem.
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1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Someone, who successfully escaped abuse/toxicity and didn't give in to inconsiderate expectations.
Or she made sacrifices, that weren't easy to make (but necessary) in order to drastically change something for the better. e. g. building a career and making money and living alone without degenerate family members and gaining autonomy over herself.
There are shitloads of families out there, that believe they can dictate their children how to live their life and that they'll like it (whether they like it or not) or what they can and cannot do to their hearts content.
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+1 yI am completely fine with a “strong” and independent women who didn’t feel the impetus to go around proclaiming “look at me! I have succeeded in my professional life despite being a victim of patriarchy!”
Any woman who goes around openly saying that is not a strong woman. Especially if she lives in a western country. She’s just milking the victim status to promote her career. Men won’t openly criticize that out of fear of ostracism up to and including being cancelled in their own careers. But they won’t have any true respect for her.
I won’t claim sexism doesn’t exist. It will always exist but we are literally have done a 180 in modern times compared to the 1950s. Most corporations and governments organizations are doing all they can to promote women and people of minorities. Preferably both. Just ask Claudine Gay and Kamala Harris.
Also don’t think men have to deal with discrimination. I remember at my old job my old boss made me move around heavy furniture and objects (several times) which had absolutely nothing to do with my job. I didn’t mind doing it but what pissed me off is there was no “please” or “thank you” for it. And this was supposed to be a progressive company that was promoting women, minorities and gay people. It was very hypocritical.
I also notice women in the workplace get a lot more leeway to make sexist comments towards men. I was once outright (verbally) sexually harassed by a female manager. It didn’t lose sleep over it or anything. But I was more pissed off about it being “comical”.
Anyway men do notice and respect women who work hard and excel without going around using identity politics. We do notice women who work hard without having to brag about it. We care about results.
00 Reply598 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Confidence is a tightrope over the void. I think people should value their own abilities but is a dangerous game if they can't find others who will also value them. Men traditionally keep to traditional values which makes it easy to be assured that others value it as well. Those values have always evolved in a perpetual clash between generations but it seems the things we value now no longer have much to do with literal "strength." In that context, I percieve a "strong" woman as one who neither automatically accepts nor automatically rejects traditional values but weighs and cherry picks based on what is actually useful for civilization and themselfes.
00 ReplyI think women prove themselves strong when try engage in what I call "boobgooning". In other words when they're good mothers. And who won't enjoy some breastfeed-edging? Too many lazy bitches just stuff a boob into their offspring's mouth once every certain number of hours, and the bastard has to suffer intervals of overeating and starving. If not completely replace it with dead plastic nipples they're supposed to suck on. The morally correct way is to feed them like you're edging when watching porn 16 hours per day. Just like your hand stays on your crotch the entire time, so too should their mouth stay on your boob all day and night, sipping on the fucking divine boob juice constantly. If you fail as a mother, you deserve to be burried alive underneath a mountain of @pig_droppings.
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+1 yDepends on how you define "strong woman."
If you mean a woman who is happy to be female and has a strong commitment to the natural role that women represent in a society then no, of course that isn't "egotistic," and I find it very attractive.
If you mean a woman with a feminist attitude who is constantly making an idiot of herself trying to prove she has the same natural role in life as a man then I wouldn't characterize it as "egotistic," probably something more like "hallucinogenic." I find it about as attractive as a bad case of explosive diarrhea.
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+1 yA strong woman has a strong moral compass, respects herself, and is loving and kind to the people around her. She's someone who fully embraces her femininity.
Sleeping around and being a "boss bitch" isn't strength, it's being a whore.
10 ReplyI might judge her if she prefer career over children, that thing is ruining japan.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2022/06/03/japan-low-births-population-decline-2021/
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+1 yA strong women has the ability to resist the most toxic aspects of what society tells her to do/be. To me a strong woman is comfortable being a feminine woman, submitting (within reason) to her husband, raises healthy and well adjusted kids, recognizes how important her role is to her family and society in general.
Strong women make for strong families. Strong families make for a good world.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yA woman who pays all my bills and takes care of my needs. I want a woman who pampers me and does all the work for me. I want her to treat me like the king that I am king. To me that is a strong woman.
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Asker+1 yAnd you wouldn’t take care of her needs?
+1 yA feminine woman is THE strong woman. That is a woman who fully embraces who and what she is without thinking it is wrong. Only type of woman men should be marrying or even looking at
00 ReplyStrong women who are not cruel and evil towards another women. Women who heals, helps other women.
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. She is a vision.
10 ReplyI think that woman is a very good woman, she is doing her best, let her continue, I congratulate that woman because a man never runs for his money.
00 ReplyIf she likes lot of guys then to me it seems like she does not know what she wants. Its a big turn off. Am i supposed to tell you what you want from life? Focus on one guy and go for it.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI think people just like what they like. Some men don't want a strong woman, and that's okay, but others are highly attracted to them.
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+1 yone who stands up for herself, knows what she wants, doesn't need a man to make her complete
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Asker+1 yYes of course but what if you fell in love with someone? I can still combine the two and don't renounce to my skills
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yes, but a strong woman doesn't settle just to be with someone
Asker+1 yNo exactly, that the case, I don't settle but this time I feel different as if it is worth to "settle" I mean not settle but reshape my location or make plans with him
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+1 yShe should put her man and her family before or career or she's recreational use only.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yA strong woman to me is a woman who is family first and backs and supports her husband and family.. Not these idiotic boss bitches.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yHonestly, it really depends on what that career is. I used to think it didn't matter, but BOY was I wrong about that!
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+1 yIs extremely confident in herself and her abilities and is dominant
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+1 ytruth set you free.
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+1 yNot my type
10 ReplyRhea Ripley
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+1 yGrow up
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yMy sisters.
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