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Female hypergamy is essentially boils down to women will only see you as a potential mate if they perceive you are better than them.
It's one of the reasons assholes do better than nice guys in getting women and not all the feminist propaganda that nice guys aren't really nice but because assholes disrespect and don't care about a girls opinion which sets off in the woman's brain that he must be better than her.

To expand on this point, if done to early on and without the woman thinking she earned it is perceives by her as a male pandering up to her to get sex/relationship and not actual kindness. Women only usually perceive kind gestures as just that once they've given up sex and the man still continues being sweet/kind to them.

Now the thing about hyper gamy with women is it's not tied only to one thing like physical or wealth but everything including attitude. A man does not necessarily need to tick off being better in all areas but enough that it is drilled into a woman's psyche that he is better than her. It's for this reason a guy can be shorter than a girl but rich, and confident and get the girl.


We see hypergamy of women in their dating preference such as wanting men who make more money than them, be taller than them, higher social status, more confident, more accomplished than her, more exciting live etc.

The problem with hypergamy is as a woman rises up in the world and become better the amount of men who matches her criteria of being on her level or more becomes smaller and smaller. This leads to fewer pool of men available for her to select making it frustrating. With more women graduating from college than men this means that the dating pool for college graduate women are going to be smaller.

It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There

So yesterday I had sex for the first time in my life and lucky me, she was actually quite attractive and I was done bragging yesterday. But a few hours later, I have realized something. I don't even value looks that much as I valued validation all this while, I mean how useless am I being if my life is as meaningless as thinking about something that is God given and not in your control. That makes me as bad a person as the women who are labelled feminazis and it makes my mere existence useless.

Also, the fact that I could get beautiful women to be attracted to me for the first time has made me realized that it's no use even yearning for them. My preference has come down to this

All I really want is a girl I can be best friends with while I am in love.

Ok so i just want to start off i have no problem with your sexual orientation, straight, gay, bi what ever it may be.
what i hate however is how many bisexual girls there are, ik this shouldn't be a problem but for me it is. I know many girls think its hot to be bi cause guys love girls kissing etc but for me i find it such a turn off.
you can say not that many girls are actually bi but I've spoken to SO many girls who i have indirectly asked and told me.
i hate how guys love and worship girls even, from her looks, voice, cute personality and be disgusted by the thought of a same sex relations but SO many girls think that little of guys that they can't decide which they prefer, like girls are literally biologically programmed to prefer guys yet they still like girls.
ik by this point i sound angry and bitter so im sorry if i come off that way but i just dont get why there are so many bi girls, hell most bi girls ik have a slight preference for girls which makes me even more annoyed.
i mean i just want guys and girls to equally love and be attracted to each other, i feel like girls only choose to be with guys at all is cause they know guys will worship then and treat them better than a girl would which i guess is a good a reason as any but still.
I mean most say girls are the more physically attractive sex which in my opinion i disagree, i think a muscular guy is MUCH more physically attractive than a girl body but its not sexual at all.
if you've read this far congrats and im sorry for ranting