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Iam not the kind of guy who does the dishes or cooks... etc , iam the type of dude who firmly belives men and women are different in what they like, want to do and actually enjoy/are good at doing, of course their skills/likes may overlap and as a result you will find a woman a bit more masculine or a man with feminine traits... but overall men and women aren't looking for the same things usually.

With that being said, most men i know dont spent much time with their kids, and dont care much about educating or investing quality time, sure they like their kids, wanna spend time with them and take them places, but usually its the mother who teaches the kids all they need to know and helps them out with homeworks, clothes, food... etc... I will be honest, me and my friends turned out decent and samrt mainly cause our moms made sure that turn out that way, the way they raised us turned us into hard working, decent and overal good adults ( we're far from perfect though) .

honestly i believe that while men are indeed needed and they provide a great deal of confidence and protection to their families and kids, and are an integral part of their life, women have the bigger effect on the way the kids turn out in the future.

For about 6 years I have known this girl, and before I get started just know I am not sugarcoating anything or heart broken or love struck. I have already come to the conclusion the problem I have with most females is due to my sophistication at age 20 and qualities I have makes them feel intimidated by me. A little about myself, I would spend a Friday night reading a book about physics or something and not care, I drive a expensive sports car that bought myself, take care of homeless animals and I am a vegan. I do not boast about my money, my car or my “strange” interests in music. Most dudes my age wanna be the next biggest rapper or ball player and I’m just happy in my own skin idc who thinks what.

There is a girl that if you saw us you would say we look like we are married. She is the only person that can get under my skin so much, infuriate me yet make me have a big smile on my face. I can have her ready to punch me in my mouth but it’s like she can’t just resist getting my attention and making jokes with/about me and teasing me. I tried once to get with her she told me no and dated some loser (and I’m sorry to say it but that’s really what he was. No job. Got high all day). She dates dudes like this all the time. Trust me I know she’s not keeping me around for validation, I know what that feels like. This girl has all her Bluetooth connected to my car, always wants to ride shotgun and when we did drive around (just me and her) she would talk to me for hourssss.

So obviously my question is what the hell? She will swear up and down she doesn’t like me at all when everyone has told me “that girl definitely likes you y’all should date”. She will turn me down if I tried but dates dudes that don’t care about her. No matter how many girls I sleep with I cannot forget about this girl. Oh by the way our friend circles are LITERALLY the same exact people. I am so angered by her I avoid her now but I don’t wanna cuz I want her and she clearly wants me.