Why Gamer Guys Struggle To Find Gamer Girls

[Anonymous]

So, I am very much aware that this list is not comprehensive, in fact far from it, BUT I do honestly believe that this may shed some light on the subject.

1: Not all gamer girls play games 24/7

The thing is girls are more interested in doing a variety of things than doing the same thing over and over again, not to mention some have jobs that they go to, to get money, for paying bills, and thus has very little time to do anything recreational, some may have not got the right equipment, a variety of factors MUST be taken into account.

2: Some girls are not interested in dating, period.

Some gamer girls are not into dating at all, this could be because she has dated before and got hurt, or she is patiently waiting for Mr. Right, or she would rather have a large social circle of people she can enjoys hours of games with. With a girl it’s difficult to find out who is interested in dating or not, and in todays digital world, and online relationship never lasts forever, a true relationship thrives best with person to person contact.

3: Some girls are literaly tarts (for a more polite word)

Some girls put on a whole “I am a gamer” act to fool gullible guys, these girls exploit a mans weaknesses, just like hackers exploit loopholes in a game, these girls put a bad rep on actual Female gamers and the gender itself, and drives a stereotype that “All girls are horny” forward, these girls are not genuine gamers, they are using their bodies, to get whatever they want, and this is something all male gamers should be very aware of.

4: Guy gamer has a lack of traits that girls like

Girls are attracted to a guy who is Confident, Honest, and has a High Self-Esteem, these qualities most male gamers seem to lack due to their lack of social development, because they spend a lot of their time playing video games, A good rule of thumb is “If you can, 2 days gaming, 3 days socialising 2 days exercising”, this ensures you get out once in a while, aids in building social skills which is a key part of life.

5: Gamer girl might already have a player two

A common misconception is that all gamer girls are single, when in fact this is not true, some gamer girls have boyfriends/fianceé’s/husbands that they are loyal and loving towards, so when a guy hits on them, and they basically say “Aww thank you, Just so we are clear, I’m taken”, it means “Thank you for the compliment, just don’t expect me to leave my partner for you, or give you nudes”.

So how do I get a gamer girlfriend?

You can start with these

1: Be confident in yourself.

2: Don’t be judgmental.

3: Be yourself.

4: Don’t ask for nudes.

5: Don’t be Needy.

6: Don’t be clingy.

7: Be Patient.

8: Be Tolerant.

9: Show understanding.

10: Don’t fear rejection.

11: Don’t be afraid to at least ask if they are single and looking.

12: Use your manners.

13: Don’t be a douche.

14: Don’t be a white night.

15: Don’t be Racist.

16: Don’t be sexist.

17: Don’t be rude.

18: Be considerate.

19: Listen.

20: Communicate properly.

21: Open up once in a while(Don’t go saying private things publicly tho).

22: Make her feel like the important one.

23: Don’t be afraid to try at least one pickup line(They may not always work, but some work, some don’t).

24: Remember, an online relationship never thrives forever.

25: If you meet a gamer girl in person, compliment her for something other than her chest or buttocks.

26: Remember, the guy ALWAYS makes the first move.

27: If you sent nudes, keep them to yourself, don’t share them with anyone unless the girl gives you her permission to showcase her nude body.

28: Show respect.

29. Be reasonable.

30: Be rational.

Follow those 30 pointers and you could potentially have a long, lasting, loving relationship, just remember, the risk of a relationship is a breakup can sting emotionally and/or mentally.

[Burgerboy21]

I actually matched with a gamer girl on a dating app recently. (I didn't know she was a gamer when I matched with her, though.)
Her profile said 'I'm not on here often so message me on Facebook.' So I checked out her Facebook profile and there was so much on it all about being a gamer and a weeb. And there were so many pictures of her with a a different guy, each being labelled as 'best friend. It was such a turn-off to me and I saw so many red flags that I ultimately decided to not message her and unmatch her. It's a shsme because she was very attractive physically and, as you can probably tell just by looking at me, I don't get msny matches.
Now to make things clear, I am not a 'gamer.' I am a guy who sometimes plays video games. I used to be a gamer, but I got bored of it and wanted to use that time to pursue musicianship.

[Burgerboy21]

Just in case anybody gets the wrong hint, I'm not attempting to bash gamers or gamer girls, or even anime fans. They're not my thing is all.
The red flags came in having seemingly too many guy friends. I don't always see that as a red flag, but in this case I felt it was.

[myTake Owner]

I sympathise with you, I have spent 20 years playing video games, and at this point I’m not as into games, so I’m learning Drums and Guitar.

[Ellsie]

30 tips aren't bad but most of is really just "how to not be a complete asshat" lol. #3 and #4 are absolutely true. Most gamer guys are socially awkward and some girls try to pose as the gamer girl for attention/free stuff so they're not going to be interested no matter what.

[myTake Owner]

Indeed, and because it’s online trying to ascertain the difference between the two CAN be a difficult task. Though lucky for me, I’m not so gullible, I have played many online games that have had a wide variety of gamer girls, ranging from equally as immature and cancerous as most Call Of Duty players, to Girls who practically spam you links to some scam site where you can get fake nudes of fake people. Generally I only talk to the gamer girls whom are more chill, sociable and are quite tollerant in games with a toxic community.

[Idonthaveausername]

You don't even need to make this about gamer guys or girls because your list at the bottom is true for anyone. Excellent advice!

But I do agree with all of your advice towards the gaming community. I gamed a decent amount in high school, but stopped once I grew up and had to get a job, so I don't at all anymore (except a few phone games). Your point about gamer girls having other hobbies is spot-on. Guys are built for being mission-oriented, so they spend way more time on games vs girls who do actually play

The fake gamer girls come in every flavor. No matter what kind of girl you're looking for, there will always be some fake girl trying to fool you. Those are the ones you have to watch out for no matter if you play games or not

[ragequeen]

Guys can find girls and introduce them to gaming. They don't have to be gamers right off for you to enjoy games together. I enjoy gaming a lot when I do it and my ex boyfriend introduced me to a lot of stuff and was pretty turned on that I played the games he did. I didn't mind that he played, because he had a life next to gaming. A lot of girls are turned off by the fact that some guys sit on their ass all day playing video games, but they really don't mind once in a while and will probably join you. Just make sure you take care of yourself, have a life and other hobbies and you can find lots of girls who are potential "gamers".

[Allie_Oops]

Gamer guys have a hard time because they treat gamer girls like friends. That's literally the main reason. You guys think it's a turn on that we game but then since we're in 'your territory', we are instantly friend zoned lol

[Logorithim]

The amount of dedication the guys have to games is the biggest obstacle- girls, even those who play games themselves, don't like that.

[lucyandstuff]

I play only two Computer games. 1. Minecraft 2. Fortnite. Many of the boy gamers call us 'e-girls'. I have e-dated 2 boys- one of them is nice, and one of them is pretty toxic and annoying. I remember baiting the toxic boy to buy a in-game package for me, by calling him up in a video chat. At one point he asked me to undress, and of course, I really wanted the in-game package, so I undressed. After the call, he bought me the in-game package. The other boy, the nice one, forgave me for e-dating another boy, and we started e-dating ever since then.

[ChgzDaniel]

I think the problem is that the real gamer girls are the ugly chicks that never talk to anyone or leave their house (Me lmao)... or if they are mildly attractive they are already married with kids past a certain age. Because of it easier for gamer girls to find gamer guys. But 99% of gamers are posers, especially women.

[lili123172]

I agree with you. You should also add: Gamer girls tend to be shy and not initiate a conversation in public.

[AsunaKazuhaya]

I don’t consider myself ugly by any means, I consider myself attractive. I’m also very extroverted. You are being stereotypical to girl gamers, like saying all guys are jerks and only want to hurt girls. Not all girl gamers are ugly, not all are posers. This is very offensive. And also, people should just be their damn self, why should you change for someone if they can’t put in the effort to like your true self. The person who changes themself for another is a true poser, your not showing yourself to the person your faking. (Rant over)

[megaman242]

I'm a gamer and have dated gamer girls. but the things is I do more things then game and I talk about more things then game. I workout, travels and have lots of other interests. a gamer girl knows she is a "treasure" and are overwhelmed and swamped by request from other and druled over like the last glass of water in a desert. They are sick and tired of it, but at the same time they get a lot of free stuff out of it. So when ever I have dated some gamer girl, it's always been outside of gaming conversation. Go for a run, drink, coffee, dance or what ever the case may be. Let the date happen first then the gaming can slowly work it way in.

[MaverickAngel]

Spent my whole life trying to find a gamer guy... ended up settling with one...(yay!) ... now not sure if I regret it or not because we have to try really hard to do normal couply things lol (hard days work.. we'd both like to game. Date night - try out the latest game.. hang with the kids? New ps4) .. Maybe a non-gamer would bring balance lol

[Pamina]

24/7? Well yeah, you'd hope no one does that. Who wants to be with someone who spends that much time in a room staring at a screen?

I think Nr. 4 is the most critical reason. The more a guy is into video games, the less attractive traits he will have, usually.

[Smegskull]

I do... I want that someone.

[Pamina]

@Smegskull What you need is professional help.

[DanoMR98]

Society is structured to work against gamers, that's why Veronica is always friendzoning us. We have to fight back.

GAMERS RISE UP!

[Rave199]

Because most women aren't into video games. And most mature men aren't into that shit either. Most people rather be making money to support themselves and pay rent or a mortgage rather than waste time on frivilous immature stuff like that. Its as bad as nerdcon/comic con which i despise. And a lot of grownups rather watch football or baseball or workout rather than waste their time on stupid shit like that

[oddmeggy]

I make money, support myself, stay healthy, EAT healthy, care for my relationships, care for my pets, and im very good at the games i play almost every day. So are the other 40 or so women in my clan. The reason you dont find people like me online is because most men in games seem to think they have a social/intellectual superiority over women of any sort, much like you

[Rave199]

@oddmeggy wow you are WAY off. FYI i dont waste my time playing pointless video games

[Prof_Don]

Some people watch TV and movies, others play video games.

Not all gamers are obsessive people that play for many hours a day

[AngryNoctis]

Gamer girls in some cases are groupies rather than gamers. I don't see what's the big deal though dating one is overrated as fuck. I'm not speaking for all just the ones I dealt with during my Hay day with online gaming. In the end all they wanted was to see my cock and stroke it for them cum all over the place etc... As if I didn't have work in the morning... sigh

[Jaximus-Lion]

Not sure how these pictures help in this take. Am a gamer since 1988 and never had a problem with the ladies for me being a gamer. The wife never plays and there is where i do my own activities as alone time while she does her alone time activities.

[MemeSupreme]

Most games I usually just don't talk unless I'm with a friend because people in games WILL treat you differently if they find out you're girl and just make the game easier for you which ruins it

[megaman242]

Yes that is what most gamer girls I know do to. It shows how little girls that play.

[Nik1hil]

So true!. All my fellow female players get this problem..
The white knight syndrome in male gamers..

[JudgmentDay]

Just because they have a common interest that you have such as gaming does not automatically mean nor is it automatically guaranteed that they will be right for you or is the "perfect match" for you.

[yasii]

I think the main reason is because there are much less gamer girls than gamer guys. Another way to get a gamer girl would be to ask your girlfriend to join you when you play and shpw her how it works.

[Kayla45]

He was a gamer boy I said see you later boy, he wasn't good enough for me.

[UnknownXYZ]

I'm sure you know how this story ends...

Too bad that you couldn't see
See the man that boy could be
There is more that meets the eye
I see the soul that is inside

[Nik1hil]

@UnknownXYZ it does not matter.. To her..
You would know if you knew her..
🤣😂🤣

[worldscolide]

Number 3 accounts for most of the ones that stream on twitch..

[jdog1992]

My girl games more than me usually. She also g
plays different games than me. I didn't think about playing with no top layer clothing lol.

[JohnBoinka]

Because GAMER GUYS should Understand that REAL LIFE is GAME too... It's called GAME of CHASING PUSSY with MONEY... hehehe