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I thought she was a nice girl but when I started to hang out with her more, she has been rude, selfish a bit not all the time, she treated her guy friend like crap SO MANY TIMES and takes advantage of him because he has a car and money (he has a job). He's forgiven her so many times and one time she blamed him for "making" her go to the mall when she has a bad headache, but SHE chose to go. She starter hiting and pouncing on him and he called her out by telling her he's going to call the police if she didn't stop. Eventually she stopped and apologize. Also she took advantage of me for money. She knows I'm on disability and one time she asked me if I can bring $100 or $150 and I told her no I can't afford to do that. She would tell me to bring $40 or $50 to go shopping and out. She took my money and put it in her purse to "keep it safe." I tried to take it back but she hit my hand and told me to "back off". I felt like such a coward. Some incident happened and we haven't spoken in 8 months. Our other best friend told me three months ago that my ex friend wanted me to talk to her and there was a misunderstanding and her guy friend lied to both of us about some things. My ex friend apologized and I told her I'm glad she apologized. Our other best friend wanted us three amigas to reunite and hang out. She had to cancel because of a family emergency. She doesn't know this girl took advantage of me but she knows about her taking advantage of her guy friend issue.
My dad suggested me to not hang with that girl anymore and forbidden me to go to her house or hang with her. I know that sounded childish but ita my choice. Plus I don't wanna gang with her anyways. I have a job now and if that girl was still on my life, she would have taken advantage of me and ask for my paycheck. Hell no!

I met my ex tonight. I've not saw him for a while, last time I saw him, we argued.

Tonight I was in the local supermarket shopping. He works as a manager there. I saw him stacking some shelves from the corner of my eye and walked to the aisle I needed.

Now, I thought perhaps he'd want to avoid me after last time we spoke. But he stood by the exit of the shop and began sorting things there just as I was checking out.

As usual, he asked how I was and what I'd been up to. So I told him. Part of it involved taking the football team that I coach away to a tournament (a kids team) and I'd jokingly said about this creepy manager who had approached the kids and ask where we were from.

Low and behold, I got a Facebook request from this guy shortly after I got home that night. I hadn't even looked his way and am actually pretty scared regarding how he found out my name.

Anyway, I was laughing about it. And my ex turned from what he was doing to face me and said 'maybe he was a nice guy, you could have gave him a chance'

I just thought: 'what?' Anyway. I replied just saying I wasn't interested in any men and that I didn't need a guy to be happy (which is true).

Just at that, he got up and said he has to go and finish his work inside the shop. He'd only just began stocking the exit part of the shop :S and usually we talk for a little longer. Perhaps he genuinely had other work to do, but I just found it odd how it seems he went out his way to talk to me anyway.

For the record, he sounded kinda down in the dumps/not very upbeat to begin with... so yeah...

dafuq?