Search Results: attracting the wrong girls

Does this make me boring and unattractive?

Before any of you tell me to just be myself, hear me out. Cause this is a reoccurring problem. Every time I try to talk to a guy who has shown he’s interested in me, they say I’m boring because in my free time I...

Serenity2014

Xper 6 Age: 30

Do you do this to draw men's attention?

Girls, please be honest on this. When you go out with a more daring outfit (like those in the pics) do you want to attract the opposite sex attention? Or it's just about comfort? Please, note that there's nothing wrong...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, When would you expect a girl to sleep with you?

I met this guy and I like him and we get on well. Two dates in and we have had a good kiss and hand holding. So the question I’m not thinking is... when will he expect me to sleep with him? I’ve only had one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

As a child I used to daydream about older men sexually empowering me, is this normal?

Up front- I had the perfect childhood and my dad never did anything to me and I’ve always been loved right by my parents. But, as a child I used to daydream about older men aged around 40/50 kinda sexually molesting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men! You cannot trust (almost all) women!

You probably want to skip this one but I urge you if you are in a hurry at least consider reading the Final words of wisdom section before jumping the gun. Very important disclaimer: I know what you are thinking....

Anonymous

(30-35)

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5 Reasons You Do Not Have A Boyfriend Yet! (From A Geek's Perspective)

Here is my version of the why you don't have a partner yet take inspired by this one . Since the other one is aimed at men ill aim this one at girls. And yes, this one is written from a geeks perspective. If other men...

sawno

Master Age: 32

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Break Up & Divorce

Would you perceive this as “shallow”?

I was “openly” dating a man for the last several months. We both travel so we put no restrictions on each other- but we went out of our way to save time and meet up in several cities to spend quality time together....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I an asshole?

Is it wrong, that i find it repulsive if i can't see a girls ab muscles from at least one angle? I refuse to date a girl who's abs are not visible. Because I am simply not attracted to girls without abs. Not really...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it wrong, that i find it repulsive if i can't see a girls ab muscles from at least one angle? I refuse to date a girl who's abs are not visible. Because I am simply not attracted

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How can I attract the guys I like without feeling lost?

So I attract the wrong guys. It’s not that there’s something wrong w these guys but they’re not my type. But I guess these are the type of guys my personality attracts. Unfortunately, I’m just not into them and sometimes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, why do you prefer Black guys to White guys?

This especially goes to White girls. *I'm not saying it's inherently wrong, I mean, you can't help feeling attracted to someone. Y'all naturally prefer Black guys, or any race to White guys. Why is this?*

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it wrong that I’ve never had a girlfriend but I’ve been played with?

So I’ve dated in the past and I met this girl who acted like she wanted us to be official right from the get go and i didn’t really mind it everything was being my first but then she played with my feelings. We didn’t...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Teacher ignoring me?

It's gonna be a long one... So this year we have a new teacher, he is about 35 and really attractive. The moment he stepped his foot at school, all girls were infatuated by his looks and personality, including me. Next...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Girls, would this go too far with when a guy's initially attracted to you (physically) like this?

As in: While I were trying to pretend that I were interested in a random girl, who (of course) do have the looks, and wanted to approach her, although I've read that girls generally take comments/compliments about their...

ARWINGx1

Yoda Age: 34

Are girls usually attracted to mixed men or can deficiencies like being socially awkward still drive women away?

Ok so I happen to be attracted to blondes for example and when I talk to people they go you should easily be able to get a girl and I’m thinking but I’m not so clearly something is wrong either A I’m not their type B it’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it weird I'm attracted to feminine men?

So I've heard that most women prefer masculine men, but for some reason it's otherwise for me. My ideal boyfriend is like the opposite of girls' preferences. Sensitive, submissive, basically all feminine traits. And don't...

Hibi003

Xper 3 Age: 23

Family & Friends

How do I get myself out of this situation politely?

I am moving far away, and I asked this girl if we could hang out one more time before I leave. She said she would be "okay with hanging out with me", and "that's fine," and now I feel bad, like she thinks she is obligated...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I wrong for feeling this way?

So there's this guy that "used" to like my girlfriend last year ( BEFORE we were together let alone knew she existed) and he invited her to his dorm and she went and they kissed and he asked her out and she said she's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

I Just Broke Up With Someone I Loved, Did I Do Wrong?

I Should Start By Saying I'm Homoflexable, I'm Not Physically Attracted To Women But I Can Be Emotionally. I Met A Wonderful Girl 6 Months Ago, We Dated, I Spent a lot To Go Hundreds Of Miles To See Her, I Heard She Had...

AntreTheHelot

Xper 3 Age: 25