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Iam a pretty logical person and realistic as well, even if i know a girl likes me a lot and finds me very attractive ( and it happens a lot) i would not approach her if she's rich or has an attitude or something similiar because i know that : 1- life with her won't be easy and , 2- i won't be able to offer the same quality of life she had so its better not to give her any false hope.
and of course that extends to previous partners and such, basically i know what i want, its not common but i do know what kind of girl i want and i've set some realistic standards for myself.

however i find that some guys (my friends included) are super happy if a pretty girl looks their way once, let alone accept to date them... in short they put the girl on a pedestal without kowing her, her personality or her past, and go as far as bringing her gifts or trying to get her even thought she admits to not having feelings (my friend for example) , this all sounds really weird and uncalled for to me and iam not sure why they do it... is it about options? do guys with options who girls find attractive get to be more relaxed and choose what they want instead of treating girls like queens?

Iam not perfect in any way, iam my own person iam smart, funny, logical and dendepenable, 6'1 very loyal and very good looking (according to all the females i know) and i make an effort to stay a healthy weight and stay as fit as i can.

The first girls i dated were 7/10 with good qualities but it didn't work out, i improved physically a lot to the point i can easily walk into a room and spark instant interest in the hottest girl there (done more than once) I attract all kinds of girls but i find that iam most attracted to attractive girls, i dont wanna sound shallow but every girl that i considered dating in the past couple of years was 8/10+ and few were 7.5/10 ... its not one sided before you ask as these girls have shown strong interest in me as well (however either distance, wrong timing or they had a boyfriend ruined it ) .

So iam single and i find a lot of average to slightly above average girls attracted to me quite a lot, i've been asked by 2-3 girls to be their boyfriend but i jokingly declined (Not very attractive) iam nice and i dont like hurting girls, but i just can't see myself dating a girl who i dont find pretty the first time i meet her, if i dont look at her and say " she's beautiful i want her to be mine " i dont think i can date her...

Iam sorry if i sound shallow but it is what is it is, am i right or wrong?