Search Results: being guarded

At what age does a man realise he is no longer attractive to a 25year old woman?

I was out cycling the other day. This guy stopped me, I thought he had something important to say. Anyways he started talking about #blm and loving black girls, that he moved to the area and would like to go out for a...

lilyanony1

Yoda Age: 35

Please help me before I lose him. What can/does a woman do that shows you she’s really serious about you and cares?

Opinions from everyone will be appreciated but men’s opinions will definitely help! The question is what can/does a woman do that shows you she’s really serious about you and cares? This man and I started talking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Why is she acting weird and cold/distant?

So we were work friends and I think we both were attracted to each other, had chemistry etc and just felt like we had a connection. She mentioned one time she wanted to hang out on a weekend and I thought maybe she was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

In which of these cases do you think the girl was showing actual interest in me, vs just being nice?

1. I was 11. A set of 12-year-old triplet girls at the local park was messing with me, and then one of them asked me if I would "like to make a baby". I went back to my house after that. 2. I was 14. A girl found out...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I wrong to think there's something here?

We met a few weeks ago on a dating site. I'm 35 and she's 30F. She just got out of a 2 year relationship about 2 months ago, so I wasn't expecting much but we've really connected in some ways, and in others I can tell...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Girl I like invites me to hang out with her at her boyfriend house, catching me off guard not sure what to think? Please read details - complicated?

Complicated ( in short ) - I have been heavily connecting with a girl for months now. There has been so many synchronicities that I can not ignore, I really feel there is a deep soul connection, I really like her....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever told someone you wanted to be just friends and changed your mind? Would you give another chance?

long story short, I met a guy on a dating app. We both were looking for a relationship. We connected right away and started to text and snapchat a lot. We met last week for a date and it went well. He opened up a lot and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I supposed to be flattered by this?

I was at the bar and I met this guy.. We were having s good time, he was pretty nice... But then he said to me “black girls must be jealous of you” (he’s black himself) now this caught me off guard... and i was just like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I know I can safely open up to a girlfriend?

And not end up with my heart being ripped out, teared apart, shredded to million pieces, burned in gasoline and then it's ashes being thrown into a river? that's exactly how my last ex made me feel. I'm not a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

The West - In desperate need of Muscular Christianity!

Muscular Christianity is a philosophical movement that originated in England in the mid-19th century, characterized by a belief in patriotic duty, discipline, self-sacrifice, manliness, and the moral and physical beauty...

JimboGB

Yoda Age: 36

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Was he just trying to be funny?

I was talking to a guy that we kinda had a thing last year lol I don’t wanna get into it but there’s been some flirting. I’ve been trying not to get sexual because there have been some issues with that in the past and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did he type this by accident?

I was talking to a guy that I had something with last year lol I don’t wanna get into it but there’s been some flirting. I’ve been trying not to get sexual because there’s been some issues with that in the past and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How much time/effort is one person worth?

Ever meet someone with a horrible relationship history who is deeply guarded and afraid of being vulnerable again? Did you stick in there or did you throw your arms up and surrender? How much time/effort is one person worth?

Mickey9999

Explorer Age: 55

Have you ever went to someone's house unannounced or just dropped by and knocked to see if you could talk to them? How did it go? Thoughts on it?

So I know most would say this is disrespectful/crazy whatever. I get that someone's home is their space. We all have phones and could call or text etc. I agree, it is not the greatest.. And maybe it is manipulative to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did I make a mistake getting into a relationship?

So a year ago I was happy being single. I decided to let my guard down and I dated someone for the first time in my life. Things between us never worked out and we broke up. I've gotten over the feelings I had for her,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Does a woman being “guarded” annoy or drive a man away?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

Christians, do you think places of worship should acquire military patrols for protection?

Out of every religion in the world, no religion gets as much hate as the Christendom (Catholics, Christians, Lutheranism, Judaism, Eastern Orthodoxy etc). In many parts of the West, Christians are often subject to...

ADFSDF1996

Editor Age: 30

Society & Politics

Soldier makes history, being the first woman to join US Special Forces/Green Berets!! Your thoughts?

I’m so proud of this woman, hope she succeeds even more in her time serving on a team. Due to nature of Special Operations in the US military, the identity of this soldier wasn’t named. The only thing said about her...

Anonymous

(30-35)