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My boyfriend was on the phone for around 3hours and he told me that there is a girl he was talking too and she was teaching him how to cook. He said he was also talking on the phone with one of his professor via video call. Yesterday, we were talking on the phone for an hour or so, then he told me he would call me back. I call him and he was on the phone. He was on the phone for around 2-3hours and told me someone was teaching him how to cook. Then he said he was talking to many people at the same time. But why didn’t he cut the person he was talking too and take my call and ask me to wait. The thing is my boyfriend likes joking and making me jealous, so I don’t understand whether I should trust him or not. I’m very confused. My family asked me not to respond his text message or phone call so fast, to wait at least for hours before getting back to him.

Last year my father and I beat my sister's abusive ex boyfriend. It was confirmed by mutual friends and the guy's own mother that he was abusing her. She once showed up with bruises on her arm and blamed it on the gym. Another time she was seen crying and wouldn't tell us what's going on.

I have to admit that he was almost even in the fight with my father... dad was getting him a bit more but he wasn't going down easily until I made that happen. I joined in by having a good angle and delivering a kick from behind. Fight ended right there. While my father isn't the type to further hit someone that's on the ground (unable to get up after what I did), as a finishing I proceeded to spitting in his face and placing my pet spider (a tarantula, what he hates the most) over him.

Good news is my sister was going to break up but it was so hard for her. She did already but she's thinks what I did was more disgusting and worse than what my father did to him. What? I think that POS deserved it all. Is it ever right to take revenge (physically) against an abuser?

Over a month ago I started dating someone and we talked for 3 months prior & he is my absolute best friend. Although, recently my stepmom has been getting on my freaking nerves bc she has access to my bank account even though, I’m 18. She still controls my money & how much I spend. Well, she saw that I’ve spent money on a few times for him and I’m paying for my own ticket to go to a fair today & she got angry and told me that a man should pay for absolutely everything when going out & she told me she didn’t like him bc of the fact that he’s not paying for everything & she keeps putting him down over it again & again & it makes me furious bc I feel bad for relying off his money bc he works hard for it & sometimes I just want to do things for him. Should a man actually really PAY for everything? & is my boyfriend a bad boyfriend for not always paying like my stepmom says?